TL;DR:

• 37M white hetero 5'10" 225lbs with a dad bod and average pp in the Seattle metro area

• recent medical procedure give me sexual dysfunction side effects that i need help working out

• basically looking for a gym spotter, but for sex

• in an open relationship with a supportive partner

• STD free, recently tested, can travel, sometimes host

my story:

i am an average dude who is pretty vanilla in bed compared to most posts here and im perfectly ok with that

im here because a recent medical procedure left me with sexual dysfunction side effects due to pelvic floor muscle trauma

my body now performs completely different from what i am used to, and i basically need to relearn how to have sex

also, a fun new perk is i can now orgasm and ejaculate 2-3 times in a row when i masturbate. i havent yet figured out how to make that happen with a partner.

doctors have equipped me with boner meds, a pelvic wand, and literature about the mystical pelvic floor kegel techniques.

doctors have also encouraged me to have sex 3-5x per week to practice and my partner's schedule has made it tough to find time for sex. she supports me having casual sex with others as long as it's safe, discreet, and no-strings-attached.

what im looking for:

im looking to team up with one or more NSA partners for casual sex sessions with a supportive dynamic. like bringing a friend to the gym for the first time. someone encouraging but who will also correct my form.

i may need to pause, or talk through things, in ways that might break the mood for most people. i may not last long, or get hard at all. i may get discouraged.

you are someone who is comfortable with giving advice, asking and answering questions, and providing honest feedback, both during and after sex.

front of the line if you have experience with sex coaching, sex therapy, massage, or physical therapy

i suppose my situation would be a great fit for someone who is likewise getting to know their body, or someone who enjoys being edged, or someone who is intimidated by high expectations in the bedroom.

im barely kinky, but even better if you are a cougar, or into discreetly fooling around in public.

if interested, send me a PM, and be prepared to swap verification pics and proof of recent STD tests

what i can offer:

in exchange for subpar dickings, im a service top who loves to please. what gets you off, gets me off. and my mouth and fingers still work great.

i give great head, i listen to nonverbal feedback, and i love making my partner cum. im not insecure about bringing toys or other people into the mix to get you off.

when it works right, i have an average 6" cock that partners enjoy taking in any hole. im an uncircumsised grower if that does it for ya.

i am STD free, can travel, and my schedule is flexible. i can host sometimes, but not overnight.

i am somewhat demisexual so i will perform better if we are fond of each other as humans first. this also means i will not treat our connection as disposable. i will honor our time commitments, do what i can to please, and when its time to move on, i will communicate that clearly and not ghost you.

what im NOT looking for:

infidelity

pillow princesses

content creators

sexual encounters with men or penis wielders, sorry fellas

gen z kids that want me to choke them and spit on them and shit right out of the gate

good luck out there, sojourners of these thirsty ass casual encounter subreddits