Hello there,

I’m a 40-year-old man living in Bellevue, with a successful tech career, a warm home, and a PhD that reflects my love of learning and drive. Over the years, I have honed my strengths in leadership, strategy, and mentoring in management roles. Now, I’m looking for someone special to share my life with a partner who can appreciate both my serious determination, my nurturing, but also my dominant side.

Who I Am

• Deliberate & Steadfast My professional and personal journeys have taught me how to stay focused on goals, overcome challenges, and support those around me. I believe in protecting and in standing up for the people I care about.
• Nurturing & Intelligent I find deep fulfillment in caring mentorship, both through helping people grow professionally or guiding someone I love on their personal journey. I have a curious mind and a warm heart, and it is evident in everything I do.
• Balanced Lifestyle I’m a bit over six feet tall, health-conscious, and active. In my free time, I'll be playing guitar, in my garden or cuddling with my cat watching a movie. I love my home, and I love spending time relaxing and recovering there.

What I’m Looking For

• A Younger Partner Someone ready for a deeply committed, long-term relationship. Someone determined to start a family. You have your own ambitions and passions but know that you need a sense of security and love that a steady and mature partner provides.
• Open to Guidance & Growth If you need a dynamic where you can let your guard down and allow someone with experience and care to guide you, especially privately, then we may be a great fit.
• Health-Conscious & Slender/Petite Physical attraction and a shared commitment to health matter to me. I’m particularly drawn to women who enjoy a balanced and active lifestyle.
• Emotionally Intelligent Communication and empathy are vital traits for me. I want us to discuss everything from day-to-day events to deeper questions with curiosity and openness.

Our Future

I dream of a partnership where we will challenge each other to grow and celebrate every success together. I can’t wait to build a loving home and a nurturing environment for a future family. Imagine cozy weekends spent gardening, spontaneous getaways to explore the PNW, and slow evenings unwinding with music or conversation over wine, always with a strong bond of trust, affection, and constant support.

If this feels like you, I’d love to hear your story: Who are you, what drives you, and what are your dreams and passions? Let’s discover if we can build something meaningful and lasting together.

Interested? Drop me a message or chat request. I’m eager to meet someone serious and ready to share an incredible journey built on determination and trust.

Looking forward to hearing from you!