Apologies for long post ahead but being real intentional with what I'm looking for.

I am 30 year old single professional dude living in the city. Longer hair, a full beard. Hairy body. Work-out regularly. I'm bi (guy-leaning) but straight-passing. No one would ever know I was bi unless I told them. Just your very run of the mill normal looking dude.

I'm a HUGE music lover; I usually go to about at least 2-3 shows a month and love going to music festivals as well (went to 6 fests last year). The issue is I go to so many music shows that my friends can't keep up with me, in regards of schedule, costs or energy, so I often end up going to shows by myself.

I kept having the thought that it would actually be damn pretty fun to find someone kinda like me to go to shows/dance parties/fests and just bro out at these events... and then afterwards we could go either back to my place (I can host) or yours if you prefer and have some long private fun of our own ;)

Musically, I have a pretty wide range of tastes and I keep and open mind as well; Love getting to discover new artists. I do lean more towards Groove, Funk, Lo-Fi, Jazz, Hip-Hop/Rap, R&B, Drum & Bass, Melodic House and general EDM (I kinda draw the line on EDM to where if it starts sounding too much like an internet modem, I'm out haha). I also just have loads of natural energy in these environments so I can rally for a while.

I don't care about pop at all (so I have no interest in Britney, Beyonce, Taylor, Chappell, Charli, Sabrina...etc -- if this is your main music taste we probably aren't a match) and while I don't hate Country, I don't particularly gravitate towards it (I have seem some really awesome country artists at fests tho)

Sexually, I'm a side. Which just means I'm game for pretty much anything except anal. So, open to mutual JO, Body contact, Making out, oral, festishes/kinks...etc. I'm Neg/Disease free. Not always, but at times I do also tend to lean a bit more submissive. I take sexual health seriously and get tested regularly about every 3 months.

What I'm basically looking for is someone kinda like myself. A straight/DL/Bi dude in his late 20's - mid 40's who is a big music fan as well. Know how to carry a conversation. Have a Job and a life outside of p*rtying and just be a chill normal person. Be neg/disease free as well.

I know this post is long and I'm realize I'm looking for something pretty specific, apologies for the long read! But I sure hope i could find someone out of this :)