Hi! I'm a 27 year old enby (afab) Seattleite looking for a non-romantic but ideally long-term partner.

In kink and BDSM, I'm drawn to both the physical and psychological intimacy; my ideal dom is someone who enjoys building anticipation in the D/s relationship and during scenes. I crave a gentle yet confident and firm hand -- someone who understands submission is earned, who enjoys guiding their sub into their place (and I promise you, my submission is worth it 😉). Train me, talk me through it, praise me, and I'll give you anything you want and more.

Here's some other things I'm interested in: - multiple/forced orgasms - rope bondage - sensation and impact play - oral (giving and receiving) - sexting, or sexy tasks between sessions

Here are some things I'm not interested in: - degradation - slapping/spitting - D/s activities that greatly impact day-to-day, like collaring, outfit control, chores lists, etc - kissing

And, of course, I want to know where your interests fall and don't fall; let's see what our venn diagram looks like, maybe we'll find we have other things in common.

It would be cool if we had some similar interests or hobbies to chat about to start building rapport, but it's not the biggest deal; being able to vibe on some level is the important part. Some of my hobbies/interests outside of the bedroom include: - reading (fiction: fantasy and sci fi especially) - video games (I have a switch and PS5) - board/card games

But also, if you're a chill, kind dude, I'm sure we can get along.

My descriptive info: 5'6", white, plus sized, short (above the ears) hair. And please note: I may be afab, but I am not a woman. If that's not cool with you, I'm not the sub for you

I'd be most comfortable with someone around my age to early 30s, but don't let that deter you if you've read this far and think we might get along (though please don't be younger than 25, sorry 😅).

Send me a message if you've read this far and I've piqued your interest. I'm excited to hear from you :)