Hi there,
I believe in the power of open and honest conversations, especially within marriage. My partner and I have shared countless moments of joy, and I deeply value what we’ve built together. However, there are parts of me—needs and desires—that remain unfulfilled.
I’ve tried discussing these feelings openly, but it’s clear our perspectives and capacities differ in this area. Rather than jeopardizing the foundation of our relationship, I’ve decided to explore this part of myself discreetly and respectfully.
I’m seeking someone in a similar situation who understands the complexities of balancing love, loyalty, and personal fulfillment. If you value honest communication, emotional intelligence, and a connection based on trust and understanding, I’d love to hear from you.
Few things about me:
- Married dad in my mid-40s
- Live and work in the greater Seattle area. Exciting and fulfilling career.
- In good shape (5'10", 175 lbs), have a full head of salt-and-pepper hair, and I take care of myself.
- Down-to-earth guy who loves to stay active—biking, pickleball, working out
- well traveled, well read, college educated, well groomed, dont drink or do drugs.
- Sci-fi nerd, board game lover, and a solid conversationalist who can go deep on almost any topic, whether it’s philosophy, current events, or a good book.
- People I have met here describe me as thoughtful, smart, kind, nice, even handsome, cute and don't look my age.
Discretion and mutual respect are paramount. Let’s have an open, judgment-free conversation and see where it leads.
Happy new year!
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