Bit of a unique post but could be possibly good thing. Normally, we’re pretty active and enjoy meeting other singles and couples that aren't local and when we're travelling. Usually through the normal swinger apps, and reddit (hence using my leisure golf account lol).

Situation: I went skiing a bit ago and fell which happens, but a huge pain went up my spine.... and I had to have my friends help me off the mountain. Turns out I probably needed surgery before this happened but now, I'll be needing some somewhat invasive surgery to fix the issue. The surgery is scheduled for early January and the recovery time is likely two months, but that's just to get back to semi-normal. It could be much longer and in the meantime, We’re looking for a someone who can step in and help with some of the of the stuff I won’t be able to handle, such as:

• Fixing things around the house (its pretty well maintained but you never know)
• Handling outdoor tasks like mowing the lawn, cleaning up the yard, maybe gutters etc
• Taking charge of the heavy lifting—literally! Anything from moving boxes to shifting furniture as we reorganize (we have a lot of stuff coming after the holidays that needs to be setup)
• Other things tbd

On top of that, and the main reason we're posting is someone to take care of my fiancée as well, and by take care I mean fuck her and make sure she enjoys it lol. The current sex since the accident is me basically being a pillow prince which can be kind of fun since its new but its already getting old and she needs much more than that. Likely after the surgery I won't be able to do anything, so this may need to be an ongoing situation haha. I won't be joining what so ever and I'll probably be in the guest bedroom recovering still. After i'm better who knows, but can be discussed later on.

About us: Been together for over 5 years, and live in the general South Seattle area. Getting married soon but no date determined yet. Usually only meet others when we travel or people are in town but changing it up for this situation. We don't divulge to our friends or family that we partake in the swinger lifestyle and would like to keep that separate. We are both working professionals and live a fun good life. No kids a couple dogs, and a somewhat easy to maintain house.

Me: I'm alright, this is more about her lol.

Her: 32, very fit and attractive. 5'4" white. She's much more open and direct that me, funny and a bit of a firecracker. High-sex drive and fiercely protective of our dogs. If they don't like you, she'll take that as a sign.

What we are looking for: Basically the above, but as to age and looks, preferably someone 25-40. She actually is open to most body types and does like "bigger" guys, but that doesn't mean obese. If you carry it well she is attracted to that, super skinny guys probably not but athletic she likes too. I don't really care what you look like just be clean and not a weirdo. Also don't "suggest" things I should do at my house or start changing things i'll get annoyed. Couples open as well (not sure how that would play out), and she likes women too, but we desperately will need the above help so be up for that.

We're not sure when this all will take place, and still a chance we may not do it, but would like to start chatting now and see where it goes. Overtime happy to send verification pics of us.

Please send at least a description of yourself of the basics, and of course a photo helps as well. No dick or body pics no one likes that.

Have a good holiday season all!