Sorry for the long read, i’ll feed you ice cream if you make it to the end and we meet up!

Recently divorced single dad, coming out of a dead bedroom marriage. After divorcing and moving out, life has been busy and that kept the loneliness / horniness at bay. I moved into my own condo a couple months ago and have been slammed with working and trying to put my house together that I haven’t put a lot of effort into getting laid / finding a FWB / situationship til now.

About me: 39, Filipino, heavier dad bod (currently down to 275 after losing 50~ lbs recently). Very flirty and playful personality, love intellectual and stimulating conversations, and (I like to think I am) a great communicator. Currently reside in Auburn and have my own place, car, job, and hobbies.

I’ve been on a healing journey the past 5 years and have worked through a lot of my own issues and continually strive to be a better version of me.

What I’m looking for: someone that’s looking for that emotional connection and is also in the same boat of being lonely / horny. I’m not looking for someone who I can send a “wyd” text at 2am, I’m too old for that 😂. Someone that enjoys being stimulated mentally and emotionally, along with physically. I try to be a pleaser in the bedroom and make sure that my partner is taken care of first. It makes me happy and hornier knowing that my partner has been satisfied. I work a wonky schedule (2am - 11am) so am free during the days / afternoons ideally.

About you: - 21-65 - HWP. I enjoy thicker women, but I’m not picky.
- Is a good conversationalist - Well groomed and good hygiene - Live within 30~ minutes of Auburn.

Front of the line access if you: - enjoy lingerie and dressing up for your partner - Into butt stuff (giving and receiving) - Open to exploring new kinks - Are into music festivals / raves

Still reading?! Score!

If you’re interested, shoot me a message / chat and tell me what made you want to message me. We can eventually swap pictures and ideally would like to meet in public for food / drinks before I just say come on over.

Open to ENM/Poly, but full disclosure: I’m very new / inexperienced in that area.

I look forward to connecting and hopefully meeting up!