Searching for someone I gel well with so we can have a mutually gratifying and beneficial connection. Someone who is obviously down for some good times, but also genuine, open-minded, excited, and respectful. I don't have the energy for jumping from one person to the next and value the comfort and safety of someone familiar, so I take that investment seriously, regardless of a romantic component or not. I'm also looking to stimulate/be stimulated, not just fuck. The mental arousal is probably as important as the physical. I want to be aroused to the point I stop thinking at all and I'm just in the moment.
Hypersexual? This is different for everyone, but basically means I think about sex a lot, but is more than just being horny. First, it is not some out-of-control thing where I break any rules between us. It's only "out-of-control" (primal) when you want it to be. For me, it sometimes means: it's hard to be satiated (an "I can't get enough of you" deal, not a "you're not doing it for me" thing), I can go for 2-3 hours in bed (I think average is closer to 1-1.5), I can't stop thinking about my partner, or my imagination runs wild and it's impossible for me to finish what I'm doing. It's also not always sexual; having a really good cuddle session can be equally good as well as just admiring your body.
Almost forgot to describe myself. I think I'm average. A pic is on my profile so see for yourself. 32, DDF, and can host. Single. Don't smoke. No kids, now or ever. I like to be direct, fair, kind, and have clear understandings. Have a handful of kinks and open to explore more. Interests range all over: part nerd, part designer, part outdoorsy. If this sounds exciting, then I'll talk to you later.
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