It is a process to allow someone physically inside of you, but mentally you have to be at ease and allow yourself to be guided. As an independent man, you are always in momentum, but when do you allow yourself a moment of respite? Submission and bottoming does not mean you are sacrificing any part of your masculinity or that you need to feel "less than", it shows that you are allowing your mind and body to relax and ease yourself into subspace where you can let go and relinquish control and release that tension and stress you hold inside.

Imagine I am sitting behind you. Your frame is larger than mine, as I am only 5' 10", with your 6' broad-shouldered body wrapped around my arms. I am still clothed while you are fully naked. I caress your nipple with one hand while the other holds your stiff member. You shutter at how responsive your cock is to another man's touch. I squeeze your muscular bicep and feel along your shoulder tattoo. It feels good to allow your body to be touched and played with. You enjoy the attention given to you.

You're told to pose: Get on all fours, then arch that back with your head down, allowing your face to rest on the bed while your arms fall flat onto the sheets. Your ass sticks out exposing your tight hairy hole. Your mind is relaxed even when another man is planning with your hole. It's a new sensation, but you've gone this far and you've allowed your mind to turn off and have the events unfold and flow like an unhindered river and you as the leaf floating down.

You are flipped onto your back. Your stare locked with mine. Your hole loose as you feel me enter you. You curse and cry out in surprising delight as tingles jolt through your body. A smile creeps along your face as you enjoy the idea of yourself finally feeling powerless to the world and just being out of control, allowing everything to happen to you. Your hands never touch my legs to push me out of you; rather, you hold my legs to pull me in deeper into you. Our lips meet as your mustache tickles my lip. You allowed yourself to be filled, to be property. I tell you to be vocal. I enjoy hearing how it feels, every stroke of my cock entering you, what it does to your body. You feel good, almost at a loss for words because all you can say back is "fuck, fuck, fuck me."

(I am 5' 10". Asian. Located in Seattle. Selfie on my profile. Happy to chat. Cheers.)