I’m 31, male, latino, 5’7, 125-130lbs, slim-fit.

I’m looking for someone I can at least cuddle with on a regular basis. I’m thinking about meeting at least once every 4 days on average, and I’m open to meeting more frequently also like once every 2-3 days although my schedule is not the same every week.

If you’re a male:

I’m hoping to find a guy, whether you be straight, bicurious, bi, or gay I don’t mind. But if you’re straight, I would need you to be open enough to let yourself be touched. Also I prefer someone who is slim, fit, or muscular, not obese, and who is also not feminine. I don’t mean you have to be masculine, I only mean for you to not be feminine. Facial hair and body hair is also a plus, but not required. I prefer guys between the ages of 18 to around my age, and even a bit older as long as not much older. 

We can make this a platonic thing, but I’m also open to this being more sexual. If you’re straight or bicurious, I guess you’ll be the one to draw that line. At the very least I want to cuddle so that our brains release the serotonin we need.

This is how I picture it in my head (at the very least): either I go to your place or you go to my place and I lay face up on the bed, and then you come and lay down on top of me. Then I will be free to put my arms around you and cuddle you. I will also be free to play with your hair, caress your back, pat and grab your bum, and so on. 

I’m open to being clothed or naked, but if clothed, all I ask is that your clothing is not too thick like for example jeans or cargo pants. Basketball shorts, sweatpants, pajamas or just underwear is fine. You can also be commando. And if you want to keep a t-shirt on, I’d like you to let me put my hands under your shirt to have more skin-to-skin contact.

I think this would be great for a guy who is touch-starved, or who is shy or socially awkward enough to seldom be touched, who thinks it would be nice to be cuddled. Or for guys who are always in control and who want to not be the one always in control from time to time. Or you can be someone else entirely, as long as we get to at least cuddle.

If you’re a female:

I’m also open to women, but if you’re a woman, just know that it would only be a platonic thing, and it will almost certainly never become sexual since I have yet to find myself sexually attracted to women. I do remember as a kid how caring some women (my grandma, some aunts, some teachers) were towards me physically in a different way I have never experienced with guys, and so I’m also open to cuddling with women. And if you’re a woman, I don’t care about your physical appearance as much as I care about a man’s, as long as your hygiene is good and I can imagine us cuddling, whatever that means since it’s more of a “feeling” or “vibe”.

If you’re interested in this or maybe not this but something similar or along the same lines, feel free to reach out and we can talk :)

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