Hear me out
You are in your golden years. May be your body is giving up a bit. And you think what if I did step out of my marriage and chased that elusive butterfly. What if I did went for that kiss. What if I did agree to reply to that person who had been looking for "one". What if we were 1 1 = 3.
I think about this a lot.
About Me:
Married dad with two kids.
Mid-40s, in good shape (5'10", 175lbs), salt-and-pepper hair, brown eyes.
Live in Bellevue, work in Seattle. Drug- and disease-free.
Dead bedroom situation (if you’re in the same boat, I feel for you).
Outdoorsy: love biking, pickleball, working out.
A huge sci-fi and board game nerd who loves a great conversation.
Down-to-earth, good listener, genuinely curious about others.
Not into drinking but love good food and good company.
About You:
- Ideally married, probably with kids too.
- Near my age and within about 2 hours of Seattle.
- Looking for friendship first; if there’s a vibe, maybe more.
- Real, genuine, and open to something that could be long-term.
- Down to swap pics early on—let’s be respectful of each other’s time.
What I’m Looking For:
- One real connection, someone who’s also thinking what if?
- Open to catching feelings—because I believe love doesn’t have to be a zero-sum game.
- This isn’t just about sex; it’s about finding someone to feel alive with.
Bonus: If you’re into fitness, even better! I’m heavy into working out and can even coach a bit—strength training, biking, pickleball, you name it. Maybe we start there and see if we vibe. Very low effort and if nothing else comes out of it, you at least got the workout.
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