When I date, it’s a total power exchange situation. My future wife understands that I will be the head of the household. I will have final say if we can’t come to an agreement. She knows that, as her husband, it will be my job to lead the family and exercise my judgment as to what’s best.

With that responsibility comes a burden. A burden of discipline.

If we were to get into a conflict, however, our power dynamic gets put on a shelf. We are two equals, working together toward the common goal of solving the problem. We don’t treat each other like the problem. We don’t yell or attack each other. We let the conflict become an opportunity to grow together.

When we’ve come to a solution, it’s time to turn the corner. To reassert my dominance. To put you back in your place. And I’ll do that by bending you over my knee and spanking your ass like a little girl until tears of pain and humiliation are running down your cheeks.

It’s important to remind you of your role in the relationship.

The marriage

I’m seeking a loving, respectful, sexually charged relationship with a woman who also walks the line between traditional/conservative and shameless/sexual.

It will be a 1950s dynamic. I bring home the bacon, and you tend to the children and our home.

You recognize my authority in all matters. And you love it. You’re the type of woman who relishes in saying “I’ll have to ask my husband first” when a girlfriend wants to make plans with you. Your pussy throbs to think about a powerful husband maintaining his status as head of household. You don’t think “submission” is a bad word, and you want everyone to know that you submit proudly to your husband.

Discipline dynamics

I draw a very distinct line between a “funishment” and a “punishment.”A “funishment” is something you crave. Something that makes you wet. The kind of action that you’ll act out on purpose to provoke.

A “punishment” is something different. A “punishment” isn’t designed to be pleasurable. A “punishment” is intended to be instructive. To teach you a lesson. To show you a behavior that you are not to repeat.

For every girl, the line between fun/punishment is different. And the nature of the punishments I issue will vary as a result. Common tools I will use in either scenario are: Spanking, orgasm denial, denial of vaginal penetration, denial of sex, denial of my attention, taking another woman to bed (considered a nuclear option in most cases), corner time, writing lines, punishment chores, etc.

Maintenance disciplineIt’s important for a man to keep his wife grounded with regular, proactive discipline.

We will have a weekly ritual before church on a Sunday morning. You’ll confess to me the ways in which you didn’t live up to your fullest potential as a wife and fuck toy for your husband. There will always be ways you could have been better, so there will always be something to confess. The point of the exercise is to keep you striving.

Afterward, I will forgive you. With an intense spanking, bent over my knee.

I need you to understand:It’s going to hurt Daddy a lot more than it’s going to hurt you. And it’s going to hurt you a lot.

Me

Tall and broad shoulders. Dadbod build. Hung. Good career. Ambitious. Driven. Relentless. Focused. Intense. Traditionally masculine. Conservative - politically and socially. Christian.

You

Traditional and conservative but also sexual and shameless. A desirable body that you are not too shy or modest to show off for me in public. NOT LIBERAL. Desires to be a homemaker.

Send me a DM and tell me about your limits, and why you feel you need a domestic discipline dynamic to maximize your happiness in a relationship.