Like the title says, Iām looking for a long term affair partner in the area. Iāve posted in the past, had some great chats going and ultimately decided to focus on a single connection. Unfortunately it didnāt work out so Iām back again but this time only looking for local VS out of state with potential to travel.
Please do NOT reach out if:
-You are not married or youāre a cake eater and perfectly happy in your marriage
-You have never had an affair before. I donāt want anyone new to this dealing with guilt or inexperience to get caught
-You donāt have time to chat outside of meeting in person. I want someone who can actually message, do calls, send pics / videos outside of meeting up in person when our schedules permit. If you can only talk as a 9-5, weāre not looking for the same thing
-Youāre just looking for a hook up or the physical aspects of this. I want emotions and an actual relationship outside of our current ones (not to replace but to enhance) but I want to be clear. Iām not just looking for sex
If none of the above describe you, hereās what I am looking for:
-Someone ideally around my age
-Physically I want someone hot. Someone with a handsome face and a fit body. Iām not into super slim dudes or guys beyond a āfit dad bodā. I want someone who hits the gym and takes care of their body because I do.
-You have a full head of hair
-You have good hygiene, smell nice, know how to dress yourself
-You have the means to meet up and maybe even take trips together in the future if things lead that way
-You know how to have a conversation. You arenāt going to give me short responses and youāll ask me questions to get to know me too. You wonāt disappear for 12 hours without trying to give me a heads up of whatās going on
-You can have the deep convos but also the lighthearted fun. The joking, the banter, the flirting. Youāre willing to open up and actually share good and bad together.
If you think you check off the right boxes, please reach out and tell me a little bit about you, what youāre looking for, your experiences, something more than āhiā.
If you include a picture, Iāll definitely be more inclined to respond more quickly. Either way, Iāll be asking to swap pics immediately to gauge attraction.
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