About Me: I’m a single woman in my mid-40s, based just over an hour north of Seattle. I pride myself on being an excellent listener with a great sense of humor, creativity, and emotional intelligence. I’m easy on the eyes, fit, and have tip-top mental health.

Who I'm Looking For: I'm seeking a man, cis or trans, who is single or ethically non-monogamous, with a high degree of personal integrity. (Cheaters, shoot your shot, but your story better be pretty effing compelling). I’m looking for someone who is an exceptional communicator, a good planner, and who enjoys deep, meaningful conversations while also being playful and hilarious. Ideally, you’re around my age.

A little bit more about you: I connect best with individuals who value empathy over arguments, and are thoughtful discussing difficult topics. People who hold progressive/liberal values are the best fit for me. If you can independently manage your day-to-day life—no need for me to clean your house or pay your bills—well then, that's double-plus good. 

Oh yeah, and: It's very important to me that you're enthusiastic about high-quality sex. Life’s too short for bad sex.

Relationship Perspective: I'm not traditional and not seeking a husband or live-in partner. I want a long-term, deeply affectionate connection where we can design a relationship that evolves with us. Whether we deliberately deepen the relationship, pause on occasion to make room for other parts of our lives, or decide to part ways amicably, a solid friendship is key.

How to Connect: If you're interested in getting to know me, reach out and share one thing you liked about my profile, something that cracks you up, and one thing you'd like to learn about me. I prioritize messages that include these three points. Feel free to share anything else you'd like!

Availability: Due to personal and professional commitments, I'm only able to meet up a couple of times a month. However, I like staying connected through texts and calls in between seeing one another. 

One more thing: I have children at home, but you won’t be meeting them anytime soon, so don’t worry your pretty little head about that.