Hello there,
Iām 45, standing at a respectable 5'10" and weighing in at 170 lbs. My hair is a sophisticated blend of black and grayāthink of it as my own personal salt-and-pepper masterpiece. I like to think Iāve aged like fine wine; the kind youād sip while discussing existential philosophy rather than the boxed stuff you find at a college party. Iām well-groomed, well-read, and thriving in my career on Seattleās eastside. People often tell me Iām handsome and easy to talk toādonāt worry, itās not just my mom; Iāve received these compliments from potential partners in crime (and by crime, I mean delightful escapades).
Iām married but navigating a ādead bedroomā scenario due to a mismatch in, shall we say, bedroom appetites. If youāre in a similar boat, I feel your paināitās like trying to enjoy a gourmet meal when youāre stuck with instant ramen. Iāve had an affair before; she moved away, but our connection was incredibleāemotionally, intellectually, and physically. Now, Iām hoping to recreate that magic with someone special.
Iām looking for an AP who is also married and seeking a secret boyfriend to add some zest to life. No financial exchanges hereājust good old-fashioned fun. If youāre under 35, I must regrettably inform you that my interests lie in the more seasoned demographic.
Hereās what matters most to me:
Mutual Attraction
Letās face itāattraction is the spark that ignites everything. Iām not after a fleeting encounter unless weāre talking about sneaking into a store for some late-night mischief (think of it as our own little heist). I want real chemistryāthe kind that makes us feel like the perfect dynamic duo. I keep myself fit (both mentally and physically), and I appreciate when others do too. Confidence? Thatās basically foreplay for the intellect.
Emotional Availability
Iām looking for someone whoās emotionally presentāthink of me as your emotional cheerleader (minus the pom-poms). Daily check-ins with flirty messages are a must! Iām here for deep discussions about life, love, and everything in betweenāalong with light banter that keeps us smiling. Youāll want to share your āI canāt wait to tell himā moments with me.
Respect for Boundaries
Iām all about respecting boundariesāyou could say I know when to lean in and when to pull back. Iāll send you a āHowās your day?ā message without showing up unannounced (unless you specifically request my dramatic entrance). I understand the need for a second life where you can truly be yourself, and Iām here to offer that without intruding on your primary existence. Yes, Iāve fallen for an AP beforeāit happens when things get deep. But donāt worry; I know how to swim.
Shared Desires
If you have a playful side hiding in the shadows, letās bring her into the light! No judgment hereājust enthusiasm galore. After all, variety is the spice of life, and Iām ready to sprinkle some excitement into our lives. Think of me as your personal spice rackāalways ready to add flavor when needed.
Discreet & Realistic
My life is busyābetween parenting duties, inflation woes, and attempting to conquer pickleball (seriously, why did the player bring a ladder? To reach new heights in their serve!), Iām not looking for unnecessary drama. I want a discreet connection that adds fun without complications.
If youāre open to it, letās see if we can create something exciting and mutually satisfying together. Lifeās too short not to have a secret adventure that makes everything else more thrilling!
Looking forward to hearing from you! And may your day feel less like an exhausting lecture and more like an engaging seminar with snacks.
P.S. Forgive my attempts at humorāIām always working on it (along with my pickleball skills).
P.P.S. If you're inundated with messages, letās cut through the noise with a quick chat or video call on Telegram/Signal. Itāll take less than five minutes to see if we clickāno hard feelings if we donāt match; just be honest with me!
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