I’m 34, married, and I know how easy it is for life to become routine, especially when you’re feeling completely sexually unfulfilled. Maybe you're in a similar spot—comfortable in your relationship but missing that spark. You’re not looking to turn your world upside down, but sometimes, you just want to feel alive again. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel that pulse again—the kind that races just thinking about the possibilities, the kind that stirs under your skin in ways you've almost forgotten. After all, you only live once… so why not dip your toes in the fire, just a little?
I’m looking for someone in the same boat—married, responsible, but longing for that extra something. Here’s the thing: I’m not looking to meet up right away, or maybe even at all. This is about building a connection that’s all our own, one that starts with texts and maybe some voice calls. We can take it slow and see where it leads, no rush. We can flirt, tiptoeing just on the edge, or maybe... we’ll find ourselves stepping over it before we even realize.
I’m married to my college sweetheart, and while we’re still great partners, sexual intimacy is pretty much nonexistent since she came out as asexual. Maybe you’re feeling something similar at home—still committed, but not fully satisfied. Let’s get into those frustrations, the kind that keeps you awake at night, twisting in bed with thoughts you can’t share—thoughts that feel so much better when someone’s listening. We don’t have to dive in right away, but a little excitement never hurt anyone, right?
Let’s keep it simple: discreet, text-based for now, and if we click, maybe some voice calls. A space where we can whisper the things we’ve only dared to think about, and maybe… dare a little more. The rest is up to us.
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