Hey there, I am hoping find long term partner or fwb who is kinky, sweet, and possibly into nerdy stuff like gaming. I have done some exploring kink wise, so I have some experience but there is more I want to experience. I would really like it if I could find someone friendly and open minded to explore with me.

Ideally I hope to find a person who considers themselves a sub, but I am open to a switch. I am NOT interested in a dom/domme. I have been wanting to find someone that is into, or curious about the following kinks. Breast play/worship, nipple play, petplay, lactation/adult nursing, ddlg, teasing/edging, degradation/humiliation, cum play, bondage. If you are into role play/cosplay/dress up that would be amazing. It would be so much fun to do some shopping together for kinky little outfits for you and then dress you up :) (I hope you like high heels, collars, and skimpy clothing, because I'll probably get you some outfits). There is more I want to explore, but we can discuss it privately if you are interested. Please let me know about any kinks you might want to explore as well.

I would say I tend to fall into the soft dom/caregiver role. I love taking care of my partner, being intimate, and close with my partner :) I am 100% into aftercare, kissing, cuddling for hours, and giving praise. I hope you like head pats and forehead kisses.

• Me: 32yo, tall (6’1”), ~170lbs (in decent shape), handsome black male (cis-male). Short black hair and beard. I am college educated and I work as a software engineer. I live on my own near downtown, so I am able to host. I got rid of my car a while ago when I switched to working remote, but I am able to travel within the city depending on how close you are to downtown. My non kinky interest are mostly video games and computer stuff (like building them). Some of my favorite games are Zelda:WW (anything Zelda really totk was amazing), Transistor, and Fallout 3/NV. When I’m not up to playing games/working on computers, I am usually streaming something to watch, or learning some new programming skill. My favorite TV Shows Community and PnR, but I test to watch a lot of stuff. I am mostly an indoors person, but I am open to hiking day or a beach outing when the weather is nice. I love to travel when I can and my favorite travel destination is Japan. I miss it there so much.

• You: cis-female, around my age but younger than myself is preferred, local to the greater Seattle area, single, child free, open to a relationship if we click or a fwb situation, submissive (as I said I am open to a switch, but NOT a dom/domme), and willing to exchange SFW pictures/video chat before meeting. I have a preference for Asian and White women, but it's not a deal-breaker. I would be absolutely thrilled if we had some common interest. If you are into video games, anime, or other pop culture stuff we will get along great. Being able to connect beyond just kinky stuff would be really nice.

If you are interested and live in the greater Seattle message please PM or chat me. I am NOT looking for anything online only and I don't want a pen pal. If you are not open to getting coffee or something as vibe check after exchanging picture and talking and for a bit then we aren't going to work out. If this is still up I’m probably still looking. Thanks for reading.