ME:

I'm a polyamorous Dominant/Daddy Dom/Caregiver looking for IRL GF or FWB somewhere between Bellevue and Everett, or willing to travel to me in Mill Creek/Everett area. Not looking for ONS/hookups. I have a GF that I see about once a week, but I'm in search of someone I can see more frequently.

I'm about 6’-4”, average body, average package, Caucasian, brown eyes, hair is going gray. I enjoy power exchange, bondage, moderate impact play, some voyeurism/exhibitionism, aspects of ageplay, and a variety of other things. I like both kinky and vanilla sex, and I'm looking for someone open to both. I prefer to start relatively slowly and enjoy the little moments of play and connection instead of jumping in bed together right away. I'm also okay starting mostly vanilla if you are new to BDSM or need time to build trust and connection before getting kinky.

Day-to-day I am a caregiver who loves to give compliments, tell you you’re a good girl, be your confidant, and provide positivity and encouragement. When you are with me you will know that you can tell me anything openly and honestly without fear of judgement or criticism. During our kinky playtime you may feel owned, objectified, and used, but afterwards you will know that you are valued, supported, and cherished. I love to give sincere compliments, and if you get a compliment from me it will be sincere.

Sexually I can be rough, but I am also vigilant about the physical and emotional health of my partner. I am very visually stimulated and enjoy buying and dressing my partner in sexy costumes and clothing. I enjoy bondage, but I will most often engage in manual restraint with my hands and body.

I have custody of my son every-other week, and he is not aware of my poly lifestyle, so our time together will be on weeks that I don't have him. Weekends can be busy, so I'm really looking for someone available mid-week with an occasional weekend day.

YOU:

I don't believe in perfection, so if you don't check every box but think we might click, lets chat and see where things go. I'm generally looking for a playful and obedient partner with submissive tendencies that's 25-40 years old in search of a fun relationship/friendship with a meaningful connection and both vanilla and kinky sex. You should enjoy being touched, pet, kissed, cuddled and having your hair played with. You must be willing to communicate your wants and needs openly and honestly. Sexually, I prefer someone who enjoys having their hair pulled, rough sex, bondage/restraints, wearing sexy outfits, choking, spanking/slapping, and a little degradation. I love smaller partners that enjoy being with taller guys. Polyamorous or ENM is greatly preferred.

Bonus qualities: under 140 lbs, VERY short/petite, interest in: domestic service, CNC, free use, taboo role play. I’m open to any level of experience with BDSM/kink.

DEALBREAKERS:

No sex workers. Women only. Dishonesty. BBW and Trans will not be a good match.

I prefer to host, but open to you hosting if you're on my commute from Bellevue. I'm in north Mill Creek/south Everett.