I am a married, polyamorous, 41 year old Australian dom who’s looking for a submissive to form a kink dynamic with. I’m around 6’ and 165lb, non-smoker, DDF, and have experience with dominance, DDlg, pet play, and D/s relationships. I enjoy hiking, pc gaming, movies, and volunteering, and am of an average build and fitness. Should it be desired by my partner, I'm more than happy to incorporate my taste for sadism into a dynamic. I practice kink in a safe, sane, and consensual manner, mindful of the risks and careful not to break trust placed in me. My goal is to ensure that each person in the dynamic has a smile on their face :)

What I would like from you:

The ability to communicate in all honesty with me. I'd like for us to build a strong foundation of trust. If something is bothering you, do not hesitate to inform me. I cannot read your mind, and I realize that the same can be said of you. Let's keep the lines of communication clear and open.

Maturity and understanding. Willingness to learn as well as work with me, and exert an equal amount of time and effort towards the relationship.

I’d like you to be an ethically non-monogamous / polyamorous woman local to Washington, who’s looking to form a D/s relationship, mature minded, slim to average build, preferably between 25-35 (those outside this range are still encouraged to message me however), and with access to transportation.

(Optional) Bonus points should you identify as a kitten, little, middle, or similar.

I am not looking for casual hookups or NSA arrangements. FWB with an emphasis on friendship is possible, however I would prefer a genuine emotional and romantic connection in time.

I would be happy to offer further information through a more private chat, so please message me if you are interested or simply wish to make an inquiry. I'm happy to take our status as slow or as quickly as you like, provided it does not clash with my own stance.