Hello, thank you for taking the time to read this post =]

Are you stressed? Do you desire safe human touch? Do you want to be listened to? If so, I think I can help.

A little about me:

• Masculine-presenting he/him or they/them
• Temporarily retired tech worker living in downtown Seattle.
• 29, 5ft8, brown skin, fit 140 lbs.
• STI tested negative on July 17th 2024 for HIV, gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia, and herpes. Vaccinated for Hepatitis. One sexual partner since April 2024. No current symptoms.
• Lover of animals, mountains, and trees. I have the best dog in the world and I'm happy to share pics of him.
• My life's mission is to be a nourishing presence for the people around me, to make them feel relaxed, safe, and reassured. I've recently failed really really hard at doing this but I'm reflecting and learning to do better.
• I love learning about new things, especially about peoples' past.
• I enjoy routine and doing hard work. I program/learn for about 6 - 12 hours every day, work out for 1 - 2 hours 6 days a week, and I read every evening.
• I love video games, especially story-based games where you build relationships with companions like Mass Effect and Divinity Original Sin 2. I love roguelites and ARPGs, and I was a server-first raider in WoW in my distant past.
• I love breaking up tension, sadness, and anxiety with humor. If this is too much I can dial it down =]
• I just got out of a very meaningful relationship and I'm still recovering from it emotionally, I'm looking to fix my mistakes and

Who I'm looking for:

• Any race, age, or upbringing.
• Located within 10 miles of downtown Seattle
• STI tested in the last 6 months
• Feminine-presenting AFAB
• Politically left, socially.
• Some shared interests -- I haven't listed all of mine so maybe we can connect over something unexpected
• Communicative, particularly around your limits, boundaries, and what feels good/bad for you. This includes in the bedroom, over text, and in-person.
• Please be nice -- to me and others =]

What you can expect:

• I will pay for your transportation here and back.
• You'll get a heartfelt amateur massage with candles lighting the room. I'll caress your back, neck, feet, arms, and progress to your legs and inner thighs if you're comfortable. I'd enjoy making a roleplay out of this if you're down.
• You are in control! If you change your mind for any reason I will give you space no questions asked. I will regularly ask if you're OK/having a good time. No response and unenthusiastic "yes"es are a "no" and I will stop immediately and I promise to not take it personally.
• I may not cum. That's fine and good as long as you have a good time. It takes a lot to be able to get me to finish.
• Safe sex only! You can bring condoms that you prefer but I tend to only be able to cum with mine.
• I am a service dom in bed. Your pleasure is my pleasure, truly. But I also enjoy being physically rough and demeaning if you're OK with that.
• I enjoy using toys, they are friends not competition. I have handcuffs, rope, insertables, and vibrators.
• I will use plenty of warmed silicone based lube to avoid chafing and maximize pleasure.
• Hygiene: I will be freshly showered, hands washed, teeth brushed, tongue scraped, and trimmed. The room will have its air filtered and a gentle room spray applied. The apartment will be clean and organized. Every time I touch a sensitive area on our body I will ensure my hands are washed if they have touched anything else.
• My dog will want to say hi! He is quite large and, although extremely friendly, can be a lot to handle. He'll likely be under the bed and may make noise as he walks around. He typically does not bark.
• I enjoy BDSM scenario roleplay, teasing with light touch, performing oral (my favorite, would like to do this for hours), doggy, cowgirl, biting your breasts & nipples. I do not enjoy having anything touch my lower hole, blood, being submissive, sharp objects, feces/urine.
• I'd enjoy cuddling afterwards and you're welcome to stay the night but you're free to leave at any point.
• I do not expect exclusivity but please be safe with your other partners. I currently have capacity for only one person in my life at a time so I will inform you if I have a different partner.
• It would be great to spend time together before and/or after to get us more comfortable with each other but if not that's perfectly fine. I enjoy an anonymous scenario too >=]
• I'm happy to share face and full body pics if you message me. I may peep your profile to make sure you're a real person and if I don't respond it's likely because I need some reassurance you're real.

Thanks again for reading. It means a lot to me that there is a soul somewhere out there looking for the same thing I am. In my view, just by reading and being interested you and I have formed some kind of meaningful connection even if you decide to never reach out. I hope the rest of your day is kind to you and fills your soul.