Are you looking to get tied up without getting tied down? I'm looking for someone who is interested in growing a friendship together, or maybe more if we're feeling it.

I'm a 29 year old white cis male, 6'3", and I love great conversations and making people laugh. I'm slightly nerdy, I love watching TV/movies and playing video games, but I also enjoy going to museums, hanging out at the park, and taking long walks. I spend a lot of my free time hanging out with my cute dog and my primary partner of 8 years, but I'm looking to add another part to my life. I am also Demi, which means I appreciate getting to know someone first and sex isn't necessarily my priority, though I'm open to it if we hit it off.

I'm fairly new to the kink world, but I have had a lot of fun with shibari/rope bondage and Impact play. Rope-wise, I have mastered single and double column ties, I am practiced in chest harnesses and futomomos, I have tied several full body harnesses and decorative ties, and I recently completed my first hog-tie. For impact play, I have experience with my canes, slappers, flogger, crop, paddles, and, of course, my hands. Ideally, I would love someone to grow my skills with in a space that is safe and comfortable for both of us. I am looking to continue growing my technical skills, but more importantly, to grow my skills in establishing/conducting scenes, giving praise, and providing ample aftercare. I am also available to host.

I'm looking for someone (preferably a woman or someone who is femme-presenting) who is cute, friendly, enjoys conversation/messaging, and can provide specific and constructive feedback (I want this to be fun for both of us). I typically prefer people who are short and femme, but neither of those are dealbreakers if we are a good fit personality wise. The most important traits I look for are kindness and empathy, and I'm particularly fond of people who are compassionate and gentle. (Oh boy, does a good personality get my heart racing!)

If you are interested in getting to know each other and having some fun together, please send me a message. I look forward to hearing from you!