Hello reddit,

I am on the search for my person! I’m taking a look here instead of the apps because I’m looking for someone who also wants to explore as a couple. I’m looking for my fellow freak. That’s not a check box on tinder unfortunately. So here I am. Now you’re asking, but what do you have to offer random internet stranger?

About me:

I’m a fit, stable, and attractive man located in Seattle Proper, I’m 5’11”, 175 pounds and muscular and I’m trying to find a partner (ideally long to forever but open to short) who is into or at least open to some kinks and exploration in general.

I love the bread and butter of BDSM; bondage, spanking/ choking, humiliation/degradation, forced orgasms, etc. but I also have my niches. I really enjoy anal and mental submission as well. I want to exert myself over you and push your boundaries. Let’s see how much you really love me. I’m open minded, If you have a weird fetish, I would probably be open to exploring it with you. I’ll work whatever your thing is into our play. I’m a relatively creative person so I can usually make a scenario that works. My only vanilla esque factor is I’m generally Monogamish.

If you’ve read this far, I assume it’s out of either intrigue or disgust. If it’s the former and you think you might want that, let me tell you a bit more about my vanilla self:

I’m relatively deep into a career I very much enjoy that has a good amount of upside I, like most people in Seattle, enjoy type 2 fun like snowboarding, hiking, camping, biking, etc. I also indulge in recreational weed use and the occasional mushroom trip. I’m a relatively good chef, though I mostly cook the same 10 meals or so during the work week. kind of a gamer, though it is time dependent. nerdy in general. I love sci fi / fantasy (I’m usually reading at least one sci fi novel), MtG, movies/tv, etc.

Some things I’m looking for (though this list is less important for anyone looking for short term):

Physically active and fit to match my own energy. Someone motivated who has some ambition for a better life Interest in starting a family down the road Some matching kinks (Bondage, BDSM, using toys, anal play and training, water sports, dirty talk, and much more I’m forgetting)