I'm a 34 year old cis man living in Seattle looking for a monogamous cis woman located in Seattle to build something with long term potential. Physically I'm 6' 1" and about 190lbs with a fit/athletic body, bald head, and clean shaven face.

Personality wise I am straight forward, intense, silly, empathetic, logical, and open-minded. I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I don't have any pets. I have a vasectomy, am confirmed sterile, and do not want children.

I'm a liberal person passionate about progressive politics and ideals (think Star Trek: TNG) and I'm hoping you're as excited about sending in your voting ballot as I am! If you're interested in retiring early and working towards that goal together it's a big plus. I am not religious (atheist), believe greatly in sharing the mental load associated with a relationship, and have my life together with clear goals in mind.

Hobby wise I find pleasure in reading, board games, lifting, continual learning, video games, yoga, self-care, exploring new hobbies, and writing. I have a passion for cooking and appreciate a pretty fantastic low key life with fun events and activities sprinkled in. If you enjoy getting dressed up and going to a hole in the wall restaurant followed by the symphony or opera we'll probably get along.

I appreciate social time with people but can only handle so many events and outings in a short span before needing to recharge. My love languages in order are: quality time, acts of service, physical touch, words of affirmation, and receiving gifts (which I don't care about at all). I have been to therapy and hopefully you have as well as I think it's worthwhile for everyone to talk to a therapist. I am also big on communicating my feelings because I don't do well when I am constantly thinking about something, I'd rather get it out there.

I identify as a caring dominant and am looking for someone who identifies as a submissive (no brats please). I enjoy building my partner up and helping them achieve their goals in life just as much as any BDSM act. I am looking for someone who wants an egalitarian partnership outside of our dynamic.

For kinks I have a wide variety of interests such as tasks, training, picking my partner's clothing, tantric play, breast/nipple play, yoni massages, cum play, humiliation/degradation, CNC, somnophilia, forced orgasms, pain play, and a wide variety of others but those should provide a good idea of some of the more interesting ones. I am not in to blood, needles, knives, scat, permanent markings, 24/7 micro management, humiliation/degradation which damages my partner's self-image or physical/mental/emotional well being, or intense impact/pain play.

Hopefully this has painted a pretty clear picture of who I am as a partner and dominant. I'd be happy to share pictures and talk privately about myself, personal goals, relationship goals, or any other deal breaker topics via direct message. Please only contact me if you live in Seattle and plan on remaining in the PNW long term.