Hey again R4RSeattle, you can call me L (he/him) for now. It's been a while since my last post but I'm back. I had some great conversations with the lovely people here back then and a few more times since, but nothing ever more than that. Lets see what happens this time!

Who I am

I'm 29 and a true native of Seattle although I now call the Bothell area my home. I'm 5'11, so white that the sun is my mortal enemy for life, bald and bearded, and about still about 270.

I was in a fantastic poly relationship for the past 4 years but recently this has come to its natural conclusion.

Now that I'm well and truly single for the first time in a while I want to meet new people, try new things, and hopefully have some fantastic sex along the way! I'm able to host or travel depending on the distance. I like driving a lot though so anywhere North of Lacey, South of Burlington or West of the mountains is likely fair game for me.

A bit more about me: I work in corporate IT, SUPER original for the area, I know! When I'm not being paid to ask people to restart their computers I like to cook, attend baseball games, go boating, try the dozens of new restaurants that spring up around here, and play my fair share of games. If you really want to get me talking ask about what's made me laugh this week or about my travel stories such as my coast to coast road trip, Worlds Fair 2020 or my plans to attend the next World Expo in 2025 in Osaka. Also accepting tips for Japan!

I bought a house in March 2020 right before COVID hit and have dumped so much time, energy, and money into it. Ask me about my water damage experience! Not something I'd wish for anyone else to ever have to deal with, but makes for a good story now.

Sex wise I'm a hedonist at heart. In the bedroom my focus is always locked onto the pleasure of my partner. Generally if I'm getting you off, its getting me off. If you're a great communicator who can show/tell me how you want to be touched, you're my kind of person!

I'm not looking for specifically a kink centered person. I love "vanilla" just as much although that term has never sat right with me. Basically, I can do spicy or mild and everywhere in between.

For those on the spicy side I'll start with my limits. It's all the general ones you'd expect to see: blood, scat, pee, etc. I'm not great around knives or needles or anything else one might consider similar to those. I'm no sadist and I'm a horrible brat tamer. I also can't do CNC, I'm too much of a softie for that but props to those that can. Seems fun for you!

Things I'm into would center around orgasm control. Things like, teasing, denial, overstim, light to moderate bondage, sensory play, anal play (if you're into that), and giving praise/degradation. Like I said, if I'm getting you off, it's getting me off. More than happy to discuss anything I haven't listed here.

What I love more than anything else in this world is my true #1 kink, creampies. There is nothing better than filling someone completely and I will forever die on this hill

With that said, I am a lifelong supporter of Team-no-Babies. So much so that I had a vasectomy last year and have since confirmed I'm sterilized, twice. I'm tested every 6 months or before every new partner, whichever happens first and will provide proof of both of these. My most recent test was last week on 6/1

I completely get that I'd be an idiot to expect anyone to be open to that immediately let alone forgoing barriers with a strange man from the internet. This is not a requirement, just a lofty aspiration to those that share my love of this primal pleasure. But if you have a breeding kink, I want to meet you!

Who you are

I'm pretty flexible. My ideal person is AFAB & no older than 40, although exceptions could be made if there's chemistry and mutual attraction. Since I have past experience in the poly/ENM space I couldn't care less about your relationship status so long as you're ethical about it. Cheaters can fuck right off.

I have no preferences on race or ethnicity, cultural background, or anything of the sort. My only real deal breakers would be things like excessive facial piercings, facial tattoos, cigarettes, or harder drugs.

420 is totally fine, I don't smoke a lot personally but I'm always down for an edible. I drink socially too but keep a pretty hard lid on having more than 2-3 drinks in 1 sitting

My big potential red flag is that my ex and former meta still live with me. Since we all get along great and my home is large enough that we all have our own dedicated spaces. We don't have plans on changing this living arrangement anytime soon. My ex does spend a considerable amount of time at their other partner's homes so they are gone almost every weekend and several days out of the week too. I understand if you're not comfortable with this, I potentially would be to if I was on the outside looking in.

We have 2 cats too so if you're allergic or just don't like cats probably best to pass on me as well.

Thank you for reading my mild wall of text. Good luck finding what you're all looking for and lets enjoy the end of Juneuary!