Not a very good pitch for a hookup sub, I know, but I'm really hoping to meet a good understanding person for this. Basically, I'm not sure if I'm actually sexually attracted to people, but really enjoy certain sexual activities, and I feel like I should explore the limits of that with an understanding person who wouldn't be upset or hurt by boundaries that pop up unexpectedly. I've been with 3 girls irl, and each time I walked away feeling kind of horrible because I think I made them feel unwanted or unattractive, all because of some sexual hesitance on my part that I didn't know was there until I was in the moment and realized.
In a little more detail, I really like it when things are done to me but I struggle with the idea of doing things to others because of some hypochondria with other people's bodies. The sensory experiences of being all up in there is something I'm not sure if I'll ever be into.
In terms of what I would like to actually do, I just like being seen/touched/watched and would probably start there :) And would maybe like to explore doing those things with a girl when there's no expectation of anything further.
I'm aware this is pretty unusual, but I'm really hoping to meet someone cool and understanding somewhere, and this feels like a good start
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