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Hello my beloved redditors!
I am a long time lurker/sometimes poster and I have continually had far better luck meeting men in a more honest and up front way than the dating apps could even attempt to offer, so here I remain loyal.
But something has happened - my streak seems to be ending. What I mean by this is the last couple of hook ups I attempted, I was left sorely disappointed, sexually frustrated and confused on if my communication was lacking or if I just keep getting ‘one pump chumps’.
I hate using that term, but I need to get my point across. I don’t want a nice heavy pounding for 15 minutes and then everything’s over. Please, dear god, don’t waste my time like that.
I am experienced, leaning towards a very very soft kink/more so vanilla type of sex. Not to say it’s not rough, passionate & freeing….but it’s also wholesome, honest and does not need all the added pressure of the kink world and the desire for submissive partners.
I want our bodies to do the connection, not the dabbling of taboo. I get the interest, it’s just not my exact desire right now.
I know I’d prefer an ongoing, friendship that’s open to more. Sex always gets better the more you get to know that person.
If you feel up to this type of request, please feel free to hit me up! I am located in the beacon hill area, live alone and can host - I require that you can, too. Single, available, ddf, size queen.
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