Let me just preface this by saying I do not look nor do I act 40 and I'm into both younger and older guys.

I identify as gay/queer, on T for a little less than a year and getting top surgery soon. But in the meantime I'm hornier than I've ever been my entire life. The only problem is I'm very inexperienced and definitely not the type to have casual sex - I don't even have casual friendships.

So that's where you come in!

You: single, over 24, desire to put in the time to get to know someone and not rush things for a real relationship, identify as some form of LGBTQIA and attracted to androgyny and masculinity. Not planning on having kids or maybe consider adopting in future but it's not a priority. Most importantly you know what you want and you're ready to build a partnership.

I'm a sucker for patient caring guys especially if you're also Dominant in the bedroom and kinky AF. I'm a submissive bottom but I have some capacity to switch if you so desire. I'm not very experienced but I'm extremely open-minded.

Looks wise just take care of yourself, be confident, bonus if you're vegan or vegetarian and listen to goth or punk music

Me: single, I'm ambiamorous (meaning I can do monogamy or polyamory just fine- I prefer monogamy or close to it however) I can travel but I love the PNW not looking to settle outside of here.

I love psychology, philosophy, music, writing, creating, I'm an artist, I watch a lot of movies especially horror, I live with my best friend who is also trans, I have one dog, I'm really into community building, I'm 5ft3 150lbs and I've got tattoos, I'm confident, I'm extremely neurodivergent, I love to cook vegan food, love going for long walks and bird watching, I love trying out new things and new restaurants, not much of a gamer but I'll play occasionally to relax

I have lots of special interests probably not listed here, and I wanna learn about yours too! I'm definitely the type who wants to get into whatever my partner is into. I'm sentimental, romantic and clingy with the right guy.

I'm a clean person, do everything in moderation (except smoking- I don't smoke!) And I only have sex with people I'm in a committed relationship with, cannot stress this enough. However once I'm in that relationship I have an extremely high libido and a wicked mind.

I also have a dark sense of humor, a love for life, and I'm always trying to improve myself. If you're not constantly challenging yourself as well, I'll likely get bored. I'd rather things be intense than boring, but there also needs to be healthy doses of sanity injected in that intensity lol

Alright, that's it, oh yeah I'm a Taurus very classic Taurus with bits of Aries, for those who care.

In your first message you MUST tell me your age, location, and something about yourself like what you're looking for or what made you respond and whether or not you've dated trans men and why you're interested in dating one now. Don't waste either of our time with low effort responses