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40 [F4M] Let's get to know each other!
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ssssobtaostobs is a female age 40 looking for a male in Seattle, WA
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Hello!

I'm seeking a FWB situation in the Seattle area.

Logistical Information: - Schedules need to align. I'm generally available Saturday evenings and Sundays.

  • Would like to get together every 1-2 weeks.

  • Location: I'm about an hour north of Seattle. Happy to travel to you some of the time, but would need you to come to me some of the time too.

Looking For: - Someone who will read the pinned post on my profile

  • Age 27

  • Someone who is not partnered/in a serious relationship already

  • An interesting/well thought-out introductory message.

  • Emotional connection. While I'm not looking for anything serious right now, I do need a bit of an emotional connection before getting to the physical part.

  • Someone who is willing to put in the time getting to know me via chat for a bit

  • Non-sexual coffee date meeting/"vibe check" before getting physical

  • I'm not currently looking for a serious relationship, although I might be open to it if things felt right. That being said, I am currently dating a few wonderful people, which I am transparent about with them. I'm becoming a bit of a relationship anarchist and do not know if I will ever be interested in being in a monogamous relationship again.

  • I would love to get to know someone both inside and outside of the bedroom. Just because I'm not looking for exclusivity doesn't mean that I don't want to build something fun and meaningful.

  • I require that my partners use condoms - this is non-negotiable.

For me, the most important thing is how we vibe and interact.

About Me: - I have HSV2. That's genital herpes. It's not a huge deal to me, but I understand that it might be a huge deal for you, which is why I'm leading with it. I have had it for over 10 years, take daily suppression meds for it and have never given it to a partner, even when we've had unprotected sex. Happy to answer any questions you might have about it.

  • I'm a parent to one child. At this time I am not looking for any of my partners to meet my child or be involved in his life at all.

  • I'm overweight but I think I carry it okay. Physically, I consider myself somewhat attractive (maybe a 6/7 on a scale of 1-10) but I will let you be the judge of that once we get to that point.

  • I'm very left/feminist/don't love capitalism

  • I enjoy developing my personal style and love thrift shopping to find fun clothes. My other interests include doing small DIY projects around my house, playing with cats and trying to enjoy the simplicity of day-to-day routines.

Anyway, if you connect with any of this please reach out! I'd love to chat.

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a female
Age
40
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a male
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