My wife and I are stepping into the world of ENM, and for me (so far) online dating has been pretty rough. On my first attempt at a meetup, I got ghosted. Just tonight someone on Ashley Madison tried to extort $500 out of me to not post a video of my dick where my friends and family could see it.
Jokes on her, I used to do amateur porn and they all know it, many have already seen it. So no harm done.
I'm trying not to let a few bad actors ruin it for me, though, so here I am!
For my part, our marriage is very happy, and we're going into this 100% consensually as a fun way to add some excitement to our lives. So I'm not looking for a relationship, just some fun.
I'm 41, 225lbs, a little overweight but strong and healthy (blue collar work will do that to you). I'm also a baby queer, who didn't realize how awesome dick was until AFTER he was in a monogamous relationship, so this is my time to try everything!
I'm hoping to find someone who's just out for a good time, no strings attached. Someone who wants to be open about what they want in bed, and wants to hear what I'm here for as well. I've got my own bucket list of fantasies to explore. I prefer smaller, fem presenting people (regardless of genitalia). I'm vers as well. I'm definitely open to an MMF, with the hope that I can be the man in the middle.
I'm bad at making posts like this (after all, last time I played the field, internet dating was in its infancy...), so I'll leave it here, and invite DM's. I promise I'm less awkward in real time.
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