If you’re trying to get directly into someone’s pants, just keep scrolling. One word or how are you/wyd-style responses will be ignored.

I’m looking to date! I’m a freshly 35 y/o white, plus sized (read as: I feel like a pillow) pansexual non-binary woman located in North Seattle looking for a dominant person to date, gender unspecified since I’m not picky like that. My intention for dating is to aim for a long term relationship, for clarity.

I have asthma so I can’t smoke, but do an edible every now and then.

Please note I’m not comfortable dating or hopping into bed with anyone under 25.

I’m an extroverted introvert who likes to go out occasionally and spend time with friends, see pretty sights, and travel occasionally. I’m an east coast transplant who’s been in the Seattle area since summer ‘15, and pretty much decided I’m here to stay. I’m into writing kinky fantasy and drawing up character designs, along with gaming (mostly on a switch or ps5), and watching dramas and anime. I like going to movies, seeing live music, finding new tasty places to go eat, and exchanging recipes. I’m a former competitive swimmer and skier, and would like to get back into shape enough to ski again someday. I study Japanese and Spanish on the green owl app.

I work in IT administration, though I’m going to school part time while I work on novels slated for publishing in the next few years.

Worth mentioning that I’m a leftist politically, so if that’s not your jam, no harm done, I’m just not for you. BLM. No terfs.

Values wise: I’m interested in self-improvement/being the best version of myself. Being honest both to others and about yourself is very important to me. I was brought up in a military family and dislike my time being wasted. I won’t waste yours, so please extend me the same courtesy. Empathy is important.

I’m pretty kinky, and consider myself a physically affectionate and sexually driven person. If sexual intimacy isn’t for you, that won’t work for me in the dating sphere.

Note: I have adhd and depression, though I’m medicated and see a therapist for both. Taking care of mental health is important to me.

If any of this seems your vibe, hmu! If there’s anything you’d like me to elaborate on, lmk.

Your pic gets mine!

Thanks for reading, and happy new year. 🤙✨