Hello Lovely Queer Ladies of Reddit! (And only ladies. Seriously. Please don't message me saying, "any chance you'd give a guy a chance?" or "I'm contacting you on behalf of my wife," or "my husband wants to read all of our exchanges/see everything." Sorry (but actually not sorry), the answer is no.)

So, after a lot of introspection and reflection, I've come to realize that I have a really deep desire to be dominated. After many years of often being the top in almost all of my sexual encounters, I've really felt like something is missing, and the older I get, the more I find that I have a much more subservient side than I ever really knew. Mainly, I'd say this is because I have a pretty dominant personality in my regular everyday life, and I attract a lot of bottoms/subs in general, and that's extended to my bedroom activities. Which is lovely in its own way, but I really have tapped into wanting to explore sexual submission more deeply (whether that be kink, which I'm quite friendly towards, or even just finding a regular partner who is comfortable being dominant/aggressive/rough in bed). I have had a really hard time finding other femme, queer women who are comfortable with this, and am often the one who's been expected to take the lead, initiate, and be the "top." That said, I know now I have an unfulfilled need here, and have met really lovely and wonderful ladies here on Reddit, so I thought I'd try my luck again!

If you are a lovely, sweet, lady-loving, femme domme, I'd love to hear from you! I'm looking for a gentle domme type presence, with someone who would be comfortable with someone who's a bit newer to this type of thing.

Ideally, you are:

-A woman who loves women (anywhere on the rainbow is fine by me! Bi, queer, pan, lesbian, if you like ladies, it's all good), between ages 30-50

-Femme (I have a type, I admit), and super bonus points if you're also tall (but it's fine if you're not)

-Gentle Domme Energy

-FULLY VAXXED AND BOOSTED. This is a dealbreaker. No exceptions. DDF as well.

-Experienced with topping and comfy with kink

-Love to give praise (I have a praise kink), newbie friendly

-Very confident and sexually aggressive - comfortable manhandling and getting rough (in a safe, sane and consensual way with lots of checking in, of course)!

-In a relationship status where participating in this would be 100% ethical (whether that be single, or partnered in an ENM situation where this would NOT be considered cheating on your person - this is also a dealbreaker, no exceptions. I will trust you that you're being honest about that, so please don't abuse that. And don't be a dick to someone you love and who loves you.)

-Willing to meet for coffee or a drink first, ideally in person

-I'm open to F/F couples, but NOT M/F couples.

Now, about me!

-Queer (and only date women)

-39 Years Old (but look significantly younger - most people think I'm between 30-35 when they meet me. Not that I mind being older!)

-6 feet tall, slender, brunette, with hazel eyes.

-Cisgender (I am open to hearing from trans women)

-Very friendly and warm

-Fully vaxxed and boosted (latest booster October 2023), and DDF

-Very kink friendly and willing to try most things once, and very comfortable discussing limits/boundaries/interests/speaking up

-Very very geeky (if you love sci fi and fantasy, we will hit it off spectacularly. Good Omens fans? Anyone? ANYONE? CAN WE TALK ABOUT THAT SEASON 2 ENDING?!)

-Single and happily so. I'm looking for safe, sane and consensual fun, and to try something new, but not a relationship (at least not at the moment)

If you feel like this is something that could work for you, "slide into my DMs," and introduce yourself! Please include a clear SFW photo. Messages without photos will be discarded. If I like what I see and read and I think we could click, I'll respond with a SFW photo of my own, and if you also like what you see, we can go from there (no hard feelings if I'm not your type and I don't hear from you after - I know that's just how these things roll)!

Everyone have a lovely and safe holiday!

Rose :)