I've been in and out of the kink scene for a few years now (no pun intended), and I've started to hone in on what it is that makes my horny brain "tick".

I lean towards being a Dom/Top and I tend to enjoy a healthy dose of texting exchanging Twitter pics when it comes to discussing kink (with a healthy dose of me writing erotica in there lol). That really helps me get into the headspace necessary to feel like I can trust somebody and "relax into" in-person play.

Recently, I've been seeing somebody that's on the vanilla side and, through the conversations that I've had with her about kink, we've decided that it would be best for me to explore these feelings in a separate dynamic. I've had some experience with decoupling romantic and kinky sex partners in the past, and I'm curious to explore that part of myself again in more depth. (If you'd like to meet her for vetting purposes, I'm happy to arrange that.)

What I'm looking for right now is mostly focused around the sexual aspect of the dynamic. That doesn't mean it would have to be devoid of romance or feelings though, I have a lot of emotional availability and love to share that side of myself with others, and I just want to be clear to set these boundaries to avoid any potentially hurt/jealous feelings. (Consent is critical!)

For my specific kinks, I'm happy to answer any questions in a message. In general though... I'm into Dom/sub, Master/slave, breeding/creampies, dollification/waifuification, mind break/control, and obedience training. Aesthetics play a big part for me and skirts dresses are extremely attractive to me! (I also love to write erotica)

Ice Breaker for you: Have you ever had a kink dynamic before like Dom/sub? If so, for how long?

Thank you! I'm excited to hear from you :)