Recent Redmond WA resident as I just switched jobs/careers. I am probably most available to talk later in the evening.

I have a varied list of hobbies and interest from tech, spirituality, gaming, watching history documentaries or listening to podcast on the subject. , and cooking (Continental, Mexican, Italian, Asian) . Thankfully, as much as I love food, I have dodged the onset of a “dad bod”. I'm 5"7' with an average to athletic build and I have been told I have a cute butt enough times that I might actually begin to believe it to be true. I’ve traveled to a long list of out of country destinations, both visits, as well as living abroad. Not a much of a sports fan, or hiking enthusiast. Willing to travel a to see the right person, but I do prefer to meet in public first, for both of our safety.

You: Idiosyncratic, aching for more, similarly DDF and fully vaxxed. Any height, any ethnicity and most body types besides SSBBW. Fat is fine (as in, “damn fine”), chubby is perfect, smaller is fun. But it’s all subjective, so shoot your shot! If you’re real tall, real short, real nerdy, you’ve got braces or you come from a repressed religious background, I definitely want to hear from you. Seems I have a bit of a type, so: cute, under-appreciated ladies to the front of the line.

Someone recently described me as a soft daddy/service top, and I find that to be appropriate. To me, it describes the way in which I like to treat my partners. Central to my satisfaction is my partner's pleasure and arousal. If they want to be spanked and choked, then I will happily do so. If not, then I have little interest in it. Some of my most erotic experiences have been one-sided, where I've gone down on a partner without 'reciprocation' in return. What I got out of it was the satisfaction of my partner's climaxes, the easing of her anxiety, and then allowing her to feel safe and protected by holding her close to me. .

I’m looking for someone that wants to build a connection. Ideally, I'd enjoy your company outside of the bedroom as well as inside of it, and we could see each other somewhat regularly, even if it's for relatively platonic activities, like cuddling up for a movie, cooking and sharing a meal together, gaming together in person or apart, and of course rampant teasing/messaging/chatting away an otherwise quiet evening.

Thanks for reading this far... if you are inclined to chat let me know you read the post by including your favorite flavor of ice cream in the intro.

P.S. No, I do not want your Sn*p or your K*K. If we’re gonna make it onto another platform, and only after we’ve vibed a good bit.