Vanilla me: (49, 5'7,170Lbs,SWM), recent Redmond resident as I just switched jobs/careers. I am probably most available to talk later in the evening. I don't mind a little travel, but I do prefer to meet in public first, for your safety and mine. I also love daytime dates, so brunch, coffee, or shopping is always on the table. I have a varied list of hobbies and interest from tech, spirituality, gaming, history, and cooking. Thankfully I have successfully dodged the onset of a “dad bod” but I get often get complimented about the shape of my ass. I’ve picked up an interesting set views due to a long list of destinations, visits, and living abroad. I like to think that I have and continue to progress/adjust those views as I grow older.

Someone recently described me as a soft daddy/service top, and I find that to be appropriate. To me, it describes the way in which I like to treat my partners. But I do enjoy being rough mean and nasty ONLY if that is a kink that gets you extra turned on. A few of my past activities include: Spanking, making u beg and call me daddy, humiliation, deep-throating, bondage, spitting, cnc and more. I also enjoy pleasuring my sub, so that could include body worship, fingering/eating you out, using toys on you, fucking, etc. What really satisfies me most is my partner's pleasure and arousal. If they want to be spanked and choked, then I will happily do so. If not, then I have little interest in it.

I'm huge into verbal expression, so you'll be hearing a lot of "good girl", etc, throughout our conversations and sessions. My ideal is a girl who gets off from pleasuring me. But also can be the focus of my attention too. Some of my most erotic experiences have been one-sided, where I've gone down on a partner, given her a mas(s)age, and gotten no 'reciprocation' in return. What I got out of it was the satisfaction of my partner's climaxes.

You’re idiosyncratic, and also aching for more. You don’t have to be attached, but you are cheating you will need to be discreet. Similarly DDF and fully vaxxed, any height, any ethnicity, born in the 80s or younger (although I get along better with people over 25), and most body types besides SSBBW. Fat is fine (as in, “damn fine”), chubby is perfect, smaller is fun. But it’s all very subjective, so shoot your shot! If you’re real tall, real short, real nerdy, you’ve got braces or you come from a repressed religious background, I definitely want to hear from you. Seems I have a bit of a type, so: cute, under-appreciated moms to the front of the line.

I’m looking for someone that wants to build a connection inside and outside of kink. I'm not looking for a one night stand here. Ideally, I'd enjoy your company outside of the bedroom as well as inside of it, and we could see each other somewhat regularly, even if it's for relatively platonic activities, like cuddling up for a movie, cooking and sharing a meal together, gaming together in person or apart, and of course rampant teasing/messaging/chatting away an otherwise quiet evening.

Thanks for reading this far... if you are inclined to chat let me know you read the post by including your favorite flavor of ice cream in the intro.

P.S. No, I do not want your Snap or your KiK. If we’re gonna make it onto another platform, it’ll be Telegram, and only after we’ve vibed a good bit.