As the title says I’m looking for a sub (open to switch, I like a little role reversal every once in a while but it’s not necessary) in seattle that is up for some more kinky play.

I’m a fit, stable, and attractive white man located in Seattle Proper, I’m about ~6 feet tall (5’11”), 180 pounds and muscular and I’m trying to find a partner (ideally long to forever but open to short) who is into or at least open to some kinks and exploration in general.

There’s no short supply of options in the city, the difficult factor is I need someone who is, let’s say, open to exploring more out there fetishes. I love the bread and butter of BDSM; bondage, spanking/ choking, humiliation/degradation, forced orgasms, etc. but sometimes I also like to explore more specific and unique kinks, like various forms of asserting dominance or proving your submission, or attempting to use large toys on your various holes, among other kinks as well. If you have a weird fetish, I would probably be open to exploring it with you. I like to try new things, which is probably why I’m in this situation. My only vanilla esque factor is I’m generally Monogamish.

If you’ve read this far, I assume it’s out of either intrigue or disgust. If it’s the former and you think you might want that, let me tell you a bit more about my vanilla self:

• I’m relatively deep into a career I very much enjoy that has a good amount of upside

• I, like most people in Seattle, enjoy type 2 fun like snowboarding, hiking, camping, biking, etc.

• I also indulge in recreational weed use and the occasional harder substance (nothing that bad though!)

• I’m a relatively good chef, though I mostly cook the same 10 meals or so during the work week.

• kind of a gamer, though it is time dependent.

• nerdy in general. I love sci fi / fantasy (I’m usually reading at least one sci fi novel), MtG, movies/tv, etc.

Some things I’m looking for (though this list is less important for anyone looking for short term):

• Physically active and fit to match my own energy.

• Someone motivated who has some ambition for a better life

• Interest in starting a family down the road

• Some matching kinks (Bondage, BDSM, using toys, anal play and training, water sports, dirty talk, and much more I’m forgetting)

If you’re interested feel free to reach out via chat. Requests with pictures are appreciated :)