Howdy! I'm a 38 year old trans woman currently living her best life in the PNW. I'm originally from the South, but have been living near Seattle since 2015. I'm 5'8 and overweight, and have multiple tattoos. I tend to dress femme, and enjoy the feeling of a nice dress.

I'm looking for a dating relationship based in kink. I want a partner I can share this side of me with. I don't do long distance and don't have a car, so please don't waste your time if you don't live around Seattle. I'm looking for something monogamous, in the past I've dated multiple partners but I'm not currently looking for that. I'm also not looking for something short term or a fwb.

I consider myself to be very submissive, in that I get intense emotional satisfaction when serving another person. This rubs off on all my relationships really, and I'm hoping to find someone to channel all of this sub energy into.

I'm looking for someone who wants to mold their submissive into a better version of themselves. I want someone I can eventually give large parts of myself to. I want someone not afraid of both praise or punishment, and will use either to achieve their goals. I'm not looking for someone into scat, blood, scars, age/petplay, or anything illegal. I would be overjoyed to find someone interested in hypnosis though! If you're into pain play, service, and bondage I'd love to hear from you.

Something I really care about is that your communication game must be strong. I only play with people I can trust, and trust starts with clear channels of communication between all parties. I take great pride in my ability to communicate, and you should too. I don't answer low effort messages.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. If any of this reaches out to you I look forward to hearing from you!