Hiya

My name is Vanessa

Some things about me:

I am currently on a quest for betterment, I have a career goal in mind that I’d like to reach by 2026/2027, I am deciding on whether or not I believe in free will(spoiler: probably not; determinism, bitch) and trying out hobbies that have always seemed interesting to me.(I will twist you a balloon dog)

As for my looks: I am 5’3, Mexican(can’t speak Spanish)and heavy but I have been told I carry it well because of my body type. I do hope to lose weight and I would like a guy who could enforce that and help me achieve that goal while also teaching me how to live a genuinely healthy lifestyle and create better habits not just fall into patterns of dieting and eating like shit. Fix me, Daddy. I am overall pretty insecure.

Anyways, I am not entirely sure where to begin. I am hoping to make a real connection, someone that not only gives me butterflies the first night we talk but every night thereafter. I fall hard for people, but I seem to be searching for a certain type of person. Someone, as the title states, would be a mentor as well as a romantic partner.

I want a guy who is dominant in every aspect of life; career, personal, romantic. A man who is intelligent, someone interested and genuinely knowledgeable in a variety of subjects.

Someone who will teach me about things I find interesting, who will go on deep dives with me about random subjects. Watching video essays, sharing articles and potentially quizzing me and giving me quick “homework assignments” over things we discussed.

I need someone who will be stern with me because I have low impulse control and like zero will power, not even joking I need a highly controlling individual who lives a structured life who wants to show me how to belong in it and create structure for me. Someone who understands what a brat I am and that I might fight back against things at times but genuinely want to improve under your guidance.

I want a man who wants to sit there and help me write things for brownie points at work, who wants to do the same for his career. I seem to somehow end up with guys in cybersecurity but I dont really care about your career, just that you’re a young-ish professional with ambition. (25-45 age range) I have had a late start in life career-wise and I’m kind of freaking out over it and need someone who would enjoy burning the midnight oil together.

I am hoping to find someone who is seriously funny, I typically enjoy dark humor and have no boundaries.

I am a centrist, slightly left leaning but I personally believe we should be able to joke about anything with our partner, I don’t want to walk on eggshells around my partner so I am not interested in anyone more left leaning than me which as I said is very slight. I want a guy who is is a cinematic snob who watches reality tv. Someone who is educated and capable of being the most pretentious, intellectually intimidating person in the room but acts like a normal, casual real person not constantly in competition with everyone else.

In conclusion; if you’re a dominant, intelligent, highly motivated, darkly humorous male individual between the ages of 25-45 who felt like anything I said was appealing, please reach out with a message that says more than “hey”, like maybe why you decided to send a message.