Hello R4RSeattle, you can call me L (he/him) for now. I'm 28 and a true native of Seattle although I now call the Bothell area my home. I'm 5'11, whiter than snow, bald and bearded, and about 270. Queue up SZA's Big Boys from SNL and you've the the right idea.

I've been in a wonderful polyamorous relationship with my primary partner for close to 3 years now. It's the best and happiest relationship I've ever had. We've even become nesting partners along with my meta last year and things have only been getting better still.

However, I currently find myself feeling quite lonely as my partner is out of state for the indefinite future while dealing with a family situation.

So here I am looking for someone to fill that void and hopefully become another part of our group!

Before I go further here's few (sometimes unfortunate) common questions I/we get.

1. No, we're not cheating on each other. We all talk constantly about our dates and relationships (to an extent because privacy and respect) and everyone is onboard with everything.
2. We don't do 3-ways, unicorns, couple swaps, orgies, or anything of the like. We date separately and for ourselves.
3. I am tested every 6 months or before each new partner, whichever happens first. My most recent test being in mid/late January 2023. I ask that you be willing to also get tested, if you haven't been recently already, and be willing to share that with me just as I would share mine with you. Your information will not be shared with anyone else in the polycule. We take safety and privacy very seriously.

Now here's a bit more about me

In my vanilla life I work in IT, SUPER original for the area, I know! When I'm not being paid to question how some people made it this far in life I like to cook, make cocktails, and play my fair share of games. If you really want to get me talking ask about what's made me laugh this week or about my travel stories such as my coast to coast road trip or Worlds Fair 2020.

I bought a house in March 2020 right before COVID hit. With all the time I've had to kill at home I've already completed a handful of projects on it but there's always more to do.

Kink wise I'm a hedonist at heart. In the bedroom my focus is always locked onto the pleasure of my partner. Generally if I'm getting you off, its getting me off. I can adapt myself to most peoples kinks, however I'm no sadist and I'm a horrible brat tamer. Add in the general no-gos too like watersports, scat, blood, ect.

My own primary kinks center around orgasm control. Things like, teasing, denial, overstim, light to moderate bondage, anal play (if you're into that) and a bit of degradation.

My true #1 kink is the forever mildly taboo creampies. Dear lord there is nothing better than filling someone completely. I like to say you can blame my partner for getting me addicted to them but I'd be lying if I didn't admit loving them long before she came along.

With that said, I am a lifelong supporter of Team-no-Babies. So much so that I'll be having a vasectomy in roughly 2 weeks. True sterilization doesn't occur for 3, sometimes 6 months, after so protection in some form is still a requirement until that time or when mutual trust can be established.

I'm more than happy to further discuss any and all kinks, mine or yours.

For what I'm looking for I'm pretty flexible. My ideal person is no older than 40, although exceptions could be made if there's chemistry and mutual attraction. Additionally I'm only looking for AFAB people at this time.

I have no preferences on race or ethnicity, cultural background, or anything of the sort. My only real deal breakers would be things like excessive facial piercings or facial tattoos.

I'd love to know about your dietary restrictions to help with finding an initial meeting place and maybe one day having me cook for you.

Lastly we do have cats so if you're allergic or just don't like cats probably best to pass on me.

Thank you for reading my mild wall of text. Good luck finding what you're all looking for!

PS please no chats, standard messages only.