Hello there. Happy new year! I am looking for some connections with people who do not identify as cis (sorry, just had to many issues yall). I want to feel validated during sex.

I go by they/they pronouns and identify as non-binary. I am fit, silly, skinny, nerdy, tall and pale even though I love hiking I don’t really tan. I am a switch so I enjoy being dominant and or submissive. I will share a face picture if you also are willing to do so.

I could list off all of my kinks but I would prefer us to discuss them instead.

What can I offer more then other people on here? Well for one, I actually show up when and or if we hit it off and want to meet at a public space first. For me no, does mean no. I mean unless we have a safe word and even then I will always check in and ask for consent. I put safety over pleasure. I am patient understanding and work/have a life outside of reddit. My partner knows about this and supports me exploring this solo. I will always make sure you feel safe, your boundaries are heard and my communication skills are good but can always be improved. I am not looking just for a quick hook up. I will make sure you are pleased before leaving.

Ideally it would be a bonus to meet someone with any of these bonuses: Likes to touch and or be touched, even non sexually. Is geeky, goofy and is also a fan of video games or anime would be rad. Has a high sex-drive as I like to have sex at least twice within 20-30 minute intervals. Someone who can meet up at least weekly or bi weekly.

I am recently tested for all stds/hiv with proof, I ask you be as well or be willing to get tested before we have sex, yes, even with us using protection.

I would like to talk on here for a bit and see if we connect then we can meet up wherever. I work in cap hill but live near Northgate. I can host and or travel to you.