Hi! I'm gonna start off by saying that it's been a while since I've had any sort of romantic connection, and I'm definitely not looking to jump into anything romantically serious right away....or sexual for that matter (if we can't make it as friends first, we can't make it as anything else). I'm very upfront about my needs and really need a partner who is emotionally available and great at communicating their needs in a non-violent way.

You can stop reading if you care about what genitals your partner has or what gender they are. I am also a relationship anarchist, so it doesn't really matter to me if you are poly, or monogamous. Communication, honesty, and being open with your needs is way more important to me.

In my free time, I play guitar and keyboard for funsies, might even go pro if my funds ever allow it. I also draw, have a little experience with sculpting, and have like a billion unfinished digital art projects hanging out on my hard drive. I absolutely love spending time around nature, I'd really love to go foraging, hiking, kayaking, camping (not glamping) and whatnot with any potential partner I have. I am disabled with multiple disabilities, but I can't stand being sedentary for very long and I try to push my limits often physically (much to my own detriment at times), I love excitement, variety and adventure too much for sedentary life! I also love to dance, sing, and eating meals that don't come in plastic packaging if I can help it.

I have a cat....correction: I am the butler of a cat named Squish, he sheds a lot so if you are allergic, it's not gonna work for us lol. I also plan on getting a big strong doggo in the future to train as a service animal and maybe jumpstart a career path in dog training. I'm also fond of creepy/dark things, I like horror, sci-fi and disaster movies, I listen to a lot of metal and industrial (but I listen to a lot of other stuff too), and I actually like spiders....and bugs/insects for the most part.

I'm vaxxed and I mask up, even outdoors, and I won't meet up with anyone who doesn't or anyone who refuses the vaccine without a legit scientifically accurate medical excuse.

Also, I'm very much a lefty concerning politics (anarcho-commie maybe?), but I'm also a bit of a old-fashioned country type who fishes, hunts, plans on being a responsible gun owner and sides with independent responsible farmers - so if eating meat and self-defense aren't something you can tolerate, we probably won't get along. If you care about superficial/material things in life, we probably won't get along either. I have simple needs and I don't need much to find happiness in life and I'd rather be ugly, poor, living in a tiny log cabin, and have a few good friends than living in a mansion, vacationing in Tahiti, hanging out with a bunch of bougie shallow people and buying expensive stuff that isn't of any practical use to me.

If this resonates, feel free to inbox me, don't use the chat feature though because it's broken on my end and has been ever since the major reddit UI update.