Hey! I'm Benji, 22, transmasculine (he/they pronouns), post top surgery and post hysterectomy. I am masc in appearance, I am very hairy and have a beard. Please do not reach out to me if you're not okay with that. I will not shave for anyone.

I'm not looking to meet up right away, but very soon (within the next few days)! Feel free to reach out to me again if I haven't replied, I've been slowly going through my list and vetting people! I will not respond to low effort messages.

Above all, I'm looking to give head. I have a major oral fixation. I prefer sucking cock, but will just as enthusiastically eat someone out. I am not looking to receive head. I am open to receiving pleasure, but it's something we'd need to have a conversation about first.
Long term, I'm looking for an emotionally mature and safe dom to help introduce me to and guide me through kink. I am enthusiastic and eager, and into a lot, but I also have a lot to learn and need to go slow. Understanding boundaries is vital. Safe, honest communication is vital. Emotional maturity is vital. (If you describe to me what emotional maturity looks like to you in your message, we will most likely hit it off)

My age range preference is 21-35, but that's a soft limit. Especially if I'm just going to give you head and then move on with our lives.

Please let me know your age, gender, kinks and limits when you reach out! I can't host, but I can help pay for a hotel. I am not interested in carplay at this time. I am not comfortable going to your place without chatting quite a bit and establishing a pretty solid foundation of trust first. I'm open to sending and receiving pics, but not right away. Feeling safe is the most important thing to me. I will not meet up with anyone who doesn't communicate thoughtfully.

KINKS/INTERESTS (* some of these I will not participate in until I feel very safe and secure with my partner)
- Major oral fixation, of course (I am especially into rough oral, I really want to train for getting throatfucked. I also love eating out and eating ass) - Messiness (spit, sweat, cum, maybe piss*, maybe puke*) - Moans (Honestly all sex noises. I am a major audiophile)
- Petplay* - Marking (scratches, hickies) - Praise and degrading/humiliating praise
- Impact play (spanking, slapping, especially on my ass) - Kissing and making out, lips
- Grinding and humping - Choking* - Restraints, ropes, collars and leashes* - Playing with hair and hair pulling - Caressing/petting/rubbing/groping - Group sex* - D/S dynamics* - Bulges - Clothed sex/undressing each other - Breathplay* - CNC*
- Body worship - Underwater sex*
- Toys

LIMITS
- Penetration of any kind. I have vaginismus and I am not currently prepared for anal. This includes fingering and toys. - Fisting - Gaping
- Feminization/misgendering - Just straight up humiliation/degradation
- Heavy pain - Bottoming for feet. I'm not into feet per se, but would be happy to suck on someone's toes and lick their feet, as long as they're clean. However I do not want feet on/in me.
- Scat - DDLG, ageplay - Diapers
- Sounding - Impregnation/pregnancy - My belly button and the area immediately surrounding it. I know it's weird, but I've had a phobia of belly buttons ever since I can remember, and am not okay with it or my stomach being touched. I will also not touch anyone else's belly button. Outside of these I consider myself to be sexually adventurous and willing to try almost anything at least once. Communication is key!