I have the summer free for the first time since high school and all my friends are at work :(
I am hoping to find a long term fwb to spend time with during the week (M-F). This is not just sex all the time. I would like to go for hikes, go to Sauvie Island Beach, check out downtown and grab a bite to eat, etc. To set expectations, I am being financially conscious during my time off. I can and do treat my friends to small things but I am not looking for someone who is expecting to be treated to or to go on lavish activities.
More about me: I am happily married to a wonderful woman who knows I am here, will know about you, and I would love for you to be friends with but that is not required. You must respect her though. She gets my nights and weekends so if there is something you really want to do during that time, lets just plan on including her. We have no kids, just cats. Also, you must have no intention of replacing her. Thats not gonna happen and if I get that vibe, I will cut things off. My partner identifies as asexual and is slowly rediscovering herself. I love and respect her and support her journey and she loves and supports me by letting me find a friend to play with.
I do have HSV-1 (cold sores) but nothing else. I am going to get a full panel test as soon as my new insurance card arrives and am happy to wait on anything physical until I get results. I have identified as primarily straight my whole life but I realized years ago I was at a minimum curious but still a top. If you are identify as a bottom then feel free to send me a message! I am also very active and hope you will be too!
I am also really into DIY and can host some hobby hang outs. Especially if you like to garden. I have a big yard and am trying to tame it slowly, but I've never really grown anything (want to grow veggies). I have cherry trees and blackberries. I plan on making planter boxes out of pallets and then growing a garden so if you want to get your green thumb on... (I am a renter so all projects are no/low budget and I try to utilize recycled material as much as possible)
Or maybe you're a black thumb? I am also working on restoring some old Yamaha mopeds. I just got a sand blasting setup to get the paint and rust off. I am pretty clueless when it comes to engines though.
Or do you know about chickens?!!! I need to build or find a coop first probably.....
I have some pics on my profile. Send me a message if you are interested, if your profile does not have a picture, please include one (mostly because I think everyone on the internet is a bot, catfisher, or scammer lol)
I am not gonna sign up for your OF/snapchat and chat with you there.
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