We are a couple looking for a regular service sub in our home.
I am a Dom who appreciates the psychological aspects of D/s. I love both sides of it, the sadistic fear play, humiliation, degradation as well as the praise and mentoring. D/s can be empowering when done correctly. So, understanding the lines not to cross in humiliation, and degradation deserve open, authentic communication.
I have plenty of kinks, which we can discuss but I want to find a connection.
My woman of 9 years is on the sub side, but only in bed. Our relationship is on equal ground. One reason she is open to having a sub in the home l is because she understands that it’s important to me and sees the benefits we both get out of it.
What does she get out of it?
She’s bi curious, but if she wants to partake, that is up to her. She’d also appreciate the help around the home and with the 2 cats and dog. Really, we both would. We don’t have a messy home though.
Because we want everyone to get something out of this (in addition to sexual pleasure) we need someone that wants this type of lifestyle. They feel empowered and are their ultimate self.
If you are a masochist and love the ideas of servicing a couple, developing the psychological aspects of D/s, and growing inside then perhaps you’re a fit.
Curious? Intrigued? Inspired? Feeling good? Send a message, I don’t bite…unless it’s agreed upon.
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