Hi there!

I'm here looking to meet a woman with whom to chat about life, hopes, dreams, and hopefully find my person.

Someone emotionally available and willing to meet regularly in person is preferable. Ideally somebody local or reasonably close to the Portland, Oregon area within about 4 hours driving distance.

About Me

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood area. I live alone and have one pet in my home. I am 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, Broad shouldered and on the bigger side. I have short brown hair and facial hair. I can provide pictures of myself on request.

I am honest, loyal, dutiful, kind, affectionate, and aim to please. I am, of course, nowhere near perfect. But I have a longing to grow and hope I can do so with someone special. I enjoy feeling and being made to feel submissive in and out of the bedroom and I deeply wish to be the outlet and conduit for someone else's needs and desires.

I regularly go to therapy and am continually working on being emotionally self aware and intelligent. My primary love languages are physical touch/words of affirmation and my attachment style is Anxious/Preoccupied. If you have questions about what these mean please feel free to ask and I'll explain. And please do because these things are very important and relevant to my needs within a relationship.

I'm a mega nerd but I'd like to think I carry it well. My pastimes include gaming (Usually involving D&D or video games like Soulslikes or MetroidVania games), tinkering (fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices,) movies/TV (mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi, also serious drama,) going on long walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

Who I am seeking

I am seeking someone caring and affectionate who likes taking charge when the need arises. They are strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. Someone kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and titillate. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

Ideally I'd want a partner who is interested in the Gentle Femdom (GFD) style. If you're new and interested in exploring your dominant side I may be a good fit for you! Having similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for their own hobbies and interests is a plus! (Nerdy Girls to the front!!!) And of course I'm always open to learning about new activities that we can share.

To be clear, ultimately I am looking for a relationship where equal partnership outside of kink is important to both of us. I would prefer to start with conversation and have a couple dates. If there's a spark we can and figure out how a dynamic would work for the both of us from there.

NSFW Section

If you're interested in knowing my kinks and limits Here is a list for you to look at.

I know not everyone likes it when subs posts kinks. But some do. And I only post them for the latter so they can use it as a way to gauge compatibility. I want to make it clear I am neither demanding or expecting any of these things. I prefer to cater to the whims and desires of my partner.

Likes - Gentle Femdom - Anything you might want to include in play (After discussion) - Performing acts of service and submission - Giving worship of any kind - Tease/Denial - Anal Training and Pegging - ABF/ANR - Orgasm Control and Chastity - Roleplay/Creative Writing - Light Pain/Impact Play - Discrete Public Play - Playful Humiliation and name calling

Limits and Hard "No's" - FINDOM - Extreme Pain - Extreme and Overt public humiliation - Asphyxiation or Breath Play - Cutting/Scarification or Blood Play - Race Play - "Bathroom" related play - Blackmail

Thanks for reading! If you have any questions please let me know! Have a great day!