The last couple of guys I’ve dated haven’t really been the type to be very verbal with me during sex. It’s left me feeling desperate for any approval or any sign that I’m doing good while I’m getting fucked or sucking cock. My praise kink means I need to hear affirmation to be sexually satisfied.
I’ve tried asking for it, but I don’t want to push too hard. I’d rather find a guy who enjoys giving praise and is genuinely happy to dish it out.
I do have a painful jaw issue that sometimes means I need to suck for a little bit, take a break (I can use my hands or titties to keep you hard), and then go back to sucking. I’m hoping to find a guy who’s not frustrated by this. There are probably some of you who can clearly see why I’m not hearing what a good girl I am when I need breaks like this. Listen, it’s entirely possible that I’m not actually that good at sucking dick, and that’s why I don’t get praise. But…
But, I’m hoping there are guys out there who could have fun with this, maybe? Maybe a guy who’s quick with the positive reinforcement about what I was able to do before I needed a break? Someone who would enjoy that? Maybe someone who is excited to guide me or give some instruction? While, of course, generously throwing praise my way?
I’d love it if you could help me focus on the positive.
Looking for gentle action - no rough BJs, throat-fucking, or pushing me around.
About me physically: Tallish/chubby/average-looking but I get dates (I have a funny personality and I’m not ugly just very average). White. Dresses like I’m not homeless. Showers frequently. Willing to share pics before meeting.
About being safe: I recently re-did all my STI testing, including throat swabs. Ideally, you’ve been recently tested and take your sexual health seriously. I also want our first time meeting to be in public.
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