Hi there!

My ultimate goal here is to find a partner for a monogamous romantic relationship. Someone I click with both in and outside of kink. I would prefer to start with conversation. Then if there's a spark we can get to know each other and figure out how a dynamic would work for the both of us in the long run.

If you're new and interested in exploring your dominant side I may be a good fit for you!

Appearance, Hobbies, and what I bring to the table

I work as a Network Engineer for a small IT MSP and live in the Tualatin/Sherwood suburb of Portland, OR. I live alone and have one pet in my home. I am 6 feet tall. Hazel eyes, Broad shouldered and on the bigger side. I have short brown hair and facial hair to match - Here's a pic of me for those interested

My pastimes include gaming (Usually involving D&D or Video games like Soulslikes or MetroidVania games), Tinkering (Fixing computers, radios, or any other electronic devices.), movies/TV(Mostly high-fantasy, comedy or sci-fi. I also enjoy serious drama on occasion.), going on long walks, cooking, and going to the beach.

I believe I have a lot to offer a partner both in and outside of a dynamic and wish to be given the chance to be the best person I can be for another. I am honest, Loyal, Dutiful, Kind, Affectionate, and will always aim to please. I am, of course, nowhere near perfect. But I have a longing to grow and hope I can do so with someone special.

I'm very handy and go out of my way to be useful wherever and however I can. I have a working knowledge on how to fix computers and other electronics. I am capable of car repair and maintenance (To an extent) and I am naturally strong. I'm also a decent conversationalist and have been told I'm pretty funny and charming.

Who I am seeking

The person I'd like to meet should be caring and affectionate. She likes taking charge when the need arises but isn't afraid to be vulnerable if she needs to be. Someone strong, confident, Funny, Forthright, Compassionate, Nurturing, Encouraging and supportive. She is also kind and loving but with a bit of a subtle and playful mean streak who loves to tease and joke around. But most importantly, she has a solid footing in her own life and is emotionally mature.

While a kind of attraction needs to be present for me to be interested, I don't particularly have a preference when it comes to physical appearance nor do I have a "Type". I'm much more interested in an emotional and intellectual connection. Odds are if I like you as a person and our personalities click I'll find you attractive.

I would love to meet and talk with someone who has similar interests to my own or similar enthusiasm for their own hobbies. And of course I'm always open to learning about new things if she's willing to show me.

I'd never hope to meet someone who ticks every single one of these boxes. Nobody is perfect and I would never ask her to be. All I ask is that you bring your whole self with you when we interact and I promise to do the same for you in return.

NSFW Section

Below is a list of my likes/limits - None of these are must haves. I wanted to include a robust list of this info so people can compare their interests to my own and see where we align.

Kinks and Curious Abouts(*):

• Anything you might wish to include (After discussion)
• Performing acts of service/submission
  
• Assigned Tasks and Rules
  
• Giving and receiving praise or words of affirmation.
• Goddess/body worship.
• Tease and denial.
• Adult Nursing
• Chastity
• prostate/anal training and pegging
• Orgasm control (Including JOI/CEI and edging/ruined/forced orgasms)
• Roleplay/creative writing as part of submission
• Light pain/Impact Play
• playful humiliation/name calling or pet names.

Limits:

• extreme pain/CBT
• extreme public humiliation or degradation.
• Asphyxiation
• cutting/scarification or blood play
• Bestiality
• Race play
• Watersports/Scat/Vomit
• Blackmail
• FinDom

Thank you for your time reading and giving me your attention.