Hiii Bit of an irregular post! Please read through before responding, it's like a pop quiz:)

I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys taking care of people and is good at it. I don't want you to feel that you need to take care of me (I'm very independent) and hopefully you feel happy even when not providing care. If you're the one in the friend group who is always cooking for others, or massaging shoulders, or gathering flowers on walks for loved ones, yes me too. That's the energy I want. Emotionally mature? Yes, lots of possibilities there 😘 I'm often the caretaker in my relationships (and career) and finding someone as equally giving is challenging! I want to feel safe and cared for and be the passenger princess (metaphorically, I don't mind driving) every now and then :) I love to please and give, so you will certainly be cared for as well. I love sharing food and affections.

Preferably your age is within the range of 26-35. I have no gender identity preference, except I'm extra wary of cishet men, so if you fall under that category I urge you to consider that emotional maturity is hugely important to me. Neurodivergent folks encouraged to apply. You are my people.

I've posted here before, if you're curious for my sexual interests, but I'm not just looking for sex. Intimacy is good, maybe sex will come later. Let's start with shared experiences (new café, crafts, museum, foraging?) And then work on snuggling and cozy blanket times. With summer upcoming, picnic interest is a plus!

Non negotiable: regular STI testing Experience and preference for ENM Kind hearted and compassionate Has goals for themselves

I'm not primary partner or nesting partner material ❤️I want to catch feelings but then go home at the end of the day.

Thank you for reading! Let me know your opinion on opossums in your response!