Some non kinky stuff:

I mean, cuddling is a pretty great thing to do along with kinky BDSM stuff, right — along with being a kinkster, I enjoy all non kink of intimacy and connection.

Concepts / behaviors I value (in myself and others): enthusiasm, honesty, directness, health / wellness (physical & mental), being playful, affection, having empathy, being engaged / present

I’m single, have my own place, own a car have a full time job. RACK / consent based always. Fully vaccinated. BLM. Equal pay for women (and all the genders). LGBTQIA rights.

Some hobbies / things I enjoy: photography, hiking / walking / running, chess, coffee, learning, nerdy stuff like Star Trek or Critical Role and RPGs, reading, movies, board games, socializing, meeting new people and… well, lots of stuff! I also love getting introduced to something new by someone who wants to share something they enjoy / are good at / a hobby, etc.

Some kinky stuff:

It’d be rad to form an ongoing relationship / dynamic with a woman who is into, or curious about, exploring some Femdom type kinks together. I’ve enjoyed exploring masochism in the past, so someone into giving impact play (paddles, crops, floggers, hands, etc!) would be lovely to get to know. I also enjoy being put in bondage, being teased, being in a hood to remove vision. It’s all fucking hot to me.

Also would be fun to explore some service ideas. Maybe you’d enjoy receiving foot massage / body worship / attention? Maybe being pampered by me would be appealing (brining you tea or coffee, etc?) Or maybe you’d enjoy a nude house servant to do your bidding?

What is appealing / pleasing / sexy / fun / hot to you? I’d love to hear all about you, your non kink and kinky self, favorite genres / books / movies / what you’re looking forward to / frustrations .. all the things!