Throwaway account because lots of people know my 'real' reddit name who I'd rather not discuss my sex life with. I've also posted in R4R a few days ago with no luck, so I'm trying r4rToronto and r4rOntario.

I'm 32, 5'4", size 6 and a bisexual Switch looking for a submissive to call my own. He's 47, 6'0", average build, bisexual and 100% dominant. Without sounding like "twue Dominates", we live 24/7 as Master/slave... however as a Switch I need to let my Dominant side out to play every now and then... hence our search :)

We're looking for a casual but ongoing arrangement with someone - more than just a random one night stand because we believe that the good stuff happens once you get to know a persons kinks. At the same time we're not looking for a permanent LTR triad or anything like that - definitely something in between - a couple of times a month depending on schedules and chemistry (maybe more? maybe less? who knows... it eventually all boils down to logistics). We live in down town Toronto on the waterfront and generally prefer to host as opposed to travel.

We're flexible with play, and are always safe. We enjoy the standard bondage and pain play, along with foot worship, humiliation, "forced" bi, teasing and denial and more "edgy" activities if you're feeling adventurous. We're strict adherents to limits though, and believe in RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) - we will never cross a boundary that hasn't been discussed and consented to before hand :)

You are a bisexual submissive - I cannot stress the bisexual part enough. We do not play separately, and even on occasions where you're only physically interacting with one of us, the other is involved in some way, shape or form. I am a huge fan of 'forced' bi so do be prepared and willing to interact with Him. No, you cannot just fuck me while He watches. No, it's unlikely that He will blow you unless the whim takes Him. Being willing to only receive male attention won't cut it - you have to be prepared to dish it out too ;). No, I'm not looking for a MFM threesome where the guys only just happen to both be in the same room and god forbid if they accidentally touch. You love the D as much as He and I do. As mentioned above, I am slave to him and in the org chart of this situation you'd be submitting to both of us, but reporting directly to me, so to speak.

Outside of the bedroom, you're successful (by whatever standards you measure success by), know how to dress, can hold a conversation about a multitude of topics and generally are an interesting person with a good personality. We're looking for someone who can be the Friends as well as the Benefits - someone I can go out for dinner with at a nice restaurant before we head back to our place to do dirty things all night, or go out to see a movie or a play or what-have-you (hidden public play is so hot. Ever sat in a movie theatre with a remote control vibrating plug in you? fun times)

If all of this sounds like you, and you're still reading this after my novella, drop me a line and we can exchange photos and life dreams :)