I’m a 49-year-old man living just outside the chaos of New York City. Life here is everything they say it is—fast, loud, and sometimes overwhelming—but it’s also full of quiet moments of beauty if you know where to look. For a while now, I’ve felt like I’ve been watching it all from the sidelines, waiting for something—or someone—to make it all feel real again.
I’ll be honest: my life isn’t as simple as I wish it were. I’ve been in a long, unhappy marriage that feels more like two strangers living under the same roof. It’s complicated, but I’m ready to start finding the kind of connection that makes me feel alive, seen, and truly understood.
I’m looking for a woman who craves more than just the surface-level stuff. Someone who values deep conversations, who loves the feeling of walking outside just as the city lights start to flicker, or who finds joy in the little things—like a perfectly timed song or the smell of rain on pavement. If you’re someone who’s been searching for a connection that feels honest and exciting, we might be on the same page.
I’m tall (6’3”), in good shape, and I like to think I have a sense of humor sharp enough to keep up with yours. What draws me to someone isn’t just their smile or the way they light up a room—it’s the way they see the world and their willingness to share it with me.
If this speaks to you, tell me something about yourself. What’s a dream you’ve been holding on to? The last thing that made you laugh until your sides hurt? Or maybe just what makes you feel most like you. Let’s see where this takes us.
(P.S. You don’t have to live in the city, but being close enough for a spontaneous adventure definitely helps.)
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